my boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago.
and I really want him to take me back... I like REALLY like him.
and I am trying SO hard.
but I am afarid if I don't ask soon he will find another girl or start crushing on another girl.

we do still talk but not like what we use to.
Emails that are like 2 setences...
Me asking him how was his day, and he says fine
next day how are you he says fine
.......so on
do you think he has moved on?
Or he is tryin to act like he dont care?
when do you think it is a good time to ask him to take mt back?

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

Is this the same guy that called you nasty names?

agomez

hey i have a question why did you guys break up in the first place ? Also did he break up with you or is it the other way?

dani04

no this is the only guy that dosent call me nasty names

dani04

we broke up in the first palce because he lives in a differnt country ( usa) I live in caanda
but everyone said we were ment for each other
he said he loved me
he said I was his soul mate
and I think thats true and I just dont want to lose him
he broke upwith me because he said he couldnt concentrate on his school work...

mwilliams15

How old are you? Is it absolutely necessary that you MUST have a boyfriend to be happy? Do you honestly think that you are going to marry this guy?
Don't spend all your time chasing guys. Evidently he doesn't want to be with you if the relationship has ended. Move on. If you are in high school you shouldn't waste your time with a guy you will hardly even see. You're going to miss out on all sorts of fun high school brings. Hang out with your friends and have fun. Guys? Worry about a serious relationship after you've been in college for a little while.

dani04

im 14

mwilliams15

Don't worry about a boyfriend. I started dating when I was 14. I dated that guy for 3 years. My senior year I realized how stupid I was. I missed out on sooo many things. Just have fun and be you. Get in a serious relationship once your out of high school. My mom tried to tell me this and of course I didn't listen, but I really wish I would have.

dani04

its so ahrd though
you hear and see everyone with ppl and there I am feeling left out and I cant have that.

mwilliams15

I know it hurts, but you have to let go.
You need to learn to rely on yourself rather than a guy. Do you have to follow the crowd? Why do you have to have a boyfriend? So people don't look at you weird? Why don't you start a new trend.. Why don't you say "I don't want a boyfriend, I just want to have fun and be me."
Theres nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. What's he going to do for you? He's going to take up all of your time, and hurt your feelings, you'll end up fighting with him, you'll worry less about school because you'll be too worried about him to focus on anything else. Get yourself a hobby. Start playing a sport. I think you need to work on finding some good girl friends who are going to support you and not put you down. You don't need a guy to have fun or be happy.