when should I ask him to take me back.

dani04 · Feb 26, 2008, 06:04 AM

my boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago.
and I really want him to take me back... I like REALLY like him.
and I am trying SO hard.
but I am afarid if I don't ask soon he will find another girl or start crushing on another girl.

we do still talk but not like what we use to.
Emails that are like 2 setences...
Me asking him how was his day, and he says fine
next day how are you he says fine
.......so on
do you think he has moved on?
Or he is tryin to act like he dont care?
when do you think it is a good time to ask him to take mt back?

dani04 · Feb 26, 2008, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mwilliams15

I know it hurts, but you have to let go.
You need to learn to rely on yourself rather than a guy. Do you have to follow the crowd? Why do you have to have a boyfriend? So people don't look at you weird? Why don't you start a new trend.. Why don't you say "I don't want a boyfriend, I just want to have fun and be me."
Theres nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. What's he going to do for you? He's going to take up all of your time, and hurt your feelings, you'll end up fighting with him, you'll worry less about school because you'll be too worried about him to focus on anything else. Get yourself a hobby. Start playing a sport. I think you need to work on finding some good girl friends who are going to support you and not put you down. You don't need a guy to have fun or be happy.

aww thank you that is like the best advice Ive heard...

dani04 · Mar 19, 2008, 04:07 PM

I need some help again, we have ben apart for a month
and yesterday he sent me this really nice letter
and it was well thought out I could say
and he said he will always love me
and we are jsut taking a break right now, he says...

any idea what to do?



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