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Asked Jun 26, 2007, 09:56 PM — 17 Answers
I'm just wondering to what you guys would think if you saw a 16yr old girl walking around with 1-3 guys in their 30's..?
Like walking around town, in the city, going shopping, looking/trying on clothes, eating lunch together, sitting around in cafes, going into pubs, or just driving around?

I completely don't care what you guys think, I'm just curious that's all

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Jun 26, 2007, 10:13 PM


"I'm just wondering to what you guys would think..." and "I completely don't care what you guys think..."

Am I missing something here?
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Jun 26, 2007, 11:48 PM
First off, I wouldn't be able to tell their exact age just by looking at them. If it was obvious and she was with more then one man that looked way older then her, I would be a bit concerned. I wouldn't do anything about it though, I would just wonder. If it was with one man in their 30s I might think she was out with her father for the day or something.

But this is my personal opinion, just like you asked.
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Jun 27, 2007, 12:13 AM
My personal opinion would probably be she was out with brothers/ uncles. I would probably thing they were (at least one of them) related. But this is because that would be the most likely explanation for myself - and people tend to view the world from their own set of experiences.

However if they are just friends its not as bad as some people assume - I have had lots of friends who when they were your age had male friends of a similar age. Although they did tend to have met through older siblings.

Hope this helps.
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Jun 27, 2007, 03:28 AM
"I completely don't care what you guys think..."
By that I mean I wouldn't be offended by anything anyone says
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Jun 27, 2007, 05:14 AM


I would think she was a young ho, who used older men to get what she wants.
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Jun 27, 2007, 05:40 AM
Don't put all the negativity on the young female. What about the pedophiles she's hanging out with?
What 30 year old male would want to chill with a 16 year old female? Unless they're relatives, there's no sane and good reason. They can't associate with females their own age then something's wrong with them.
Skrypt (Jul 10, 2007 02:28 AM): Yeah but since when does self responsability fall out of the equation for the female?   Source:
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Jun 27, 2007, 06:22 AM


Many cultures allow for the men to pursue young females, but the OP has said 1 to 3 older men, and yes I will admit to being harsh. 16 is too young for a female to be courted by a 30 year old.
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Jun 27, 2007, 06:31 AM
Sounds like she is interviewing sugar-daddies.
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Jun 27, 2007, 06:39 AM
In my opinion it actually depends on the type of person your (or the if its not your child) is, and what type of men they are. When I was 14 I used to hang out with men that were 28 or around that age. I went to movies, the mall and other places with them but none of it was sexual. I am now 20 and I still hang out with men (and women) who are in their 30's, 40's and 50's. When I was growing up (and still to this day) I found that I have a hard time communicating with people my own age, I find them irresponsible and idiotic most of the time. Maybe she just thinks that she cannot get along with others her own age. Even my cousins and friends spend most of their time around older people.
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