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what should i do if i still like my ex boyfriend and he still likes me

Asked May 31, 2012, 05:38 PM — 41 Answers
what should i do my ex boyfriend and i broke up because or some stuff that was happening its been 2 monthes since we broke up and everybody knows i still like him and people are saying he still likes me and im to scared to talk to him, what should i do ive already messed everything up and i dont want to fail again

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#21

Jun 2, 2012, 02:30 PM


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im 14
well idk what his friends would think they hate me and he lives for his friends
Well if he lives for his friends and they hate you, why do you even want him back? Sounds like too much drama to me.
You're 14. There will be other boys.

And could you not write in text?
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Jun 2, 2012, 04:33 PM
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im sorry i couldn't i was to shy
Then you've made your choice.
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Jun 4, 2012, 02:56 PM
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Well if he lives for his friends and they hate you, why do you even want him back? Sounds like too much drama to me.
You're 14. There will be other boys.

And could you not write in text?
his friends dont like me but they got along with me and he liked/still likes me i talked with him today he knows how i feel but he doesn't want to tell me how he feels he says he might later, i cant text him my little brother broke my cell
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Jun 4, 2012, 03:23 PM


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his friends dont like me but they got along with me and he liked/still likes me i talked with him today he knows how i feel but he doesn't want to tell me how he feels he says he might later, i cant text him my little brother broke my cell
He might tell you later? What kind of mess is that!
That is silly. So what are you going to do wait around until he makes up his mind to tell you if he still likes you?
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Jun 4, 2012, 03:31 PM
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He might tell you later? What kind of mess is that!
That is silly. So what are you going to do wait around until he makes up his mind to tell you if he still likes you?
good point i should just give up, he probly hates me, whats the point of loving someone when they hate you
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Jun 4, 2012, 03:40 PM
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good point i should just give up, he probly hates me, whats the point of loving someone when they hate you
Ah, teen drama.

You should just give up, but not because you think he hates you. You should give up because you obviously can't handle a relationship. You can't even talk to him, you're "too shy". So give up on him, get a backbone, and try again when you're a bit older and a lot more mature.
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Jun 4, 2012, 03:46 PM
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Ah, teen drama.

You should just give up, but not because you think he hates you. You should give up because you obviously can't handle a relationship. You can't even talk to him, you're "too shy". So give up on him, get a backbone, and try again when you're a bit older and a lot more mature.
im to shy because im scared im going to hurt him again im the one who broke up with him he forgave me right after but i said something wrong that i dident mean to say and i dont want to hurt him its bad enuff his dads dieing,i want to be there for him i really do, if he does hate me then what?
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Jun 4, 2012, 03:46 PM


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good point i should just give up, he probably hates me, whats the point of loving someone when they hate you
I doubt he hates you. He is all of what 14 or 15. he probably is just being a teenage boy. You are too young to date anyway and as shy as you are and as desperate as you seem about this boy, you can be easily taken advantage of.
Leave him alone.
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Jun 4, 2012, 03:56 PM
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I doubt he hates you. He is all of what 14 or 15. he probably is just being a teenage boy. You are too young to date anyway and as shy as you are and as desperate as you seem about this boy, you can be easily taken advantage of.
Leave him alone.
im to shy because im scared im going to hurt him again im the one who broke up with him he forgave me right after but i said something wrong that i dident mean to say and i dont want to hurt him its bad enuff his dads dieing,i want to be there for him i really do, if he does hate me then what?
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Jun 4, 2012, 04:09 PM
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im to shy because im scared im going to hurt him again im the one who broke up with him he forgave me right after but i said something wrong that i dident mean to say and i dont want to hurt him its bad enuff his dads dieing,i want to be there for him i really do, if he does hate me then what?
I doubt he hates you, but the fact is, you aren't ready to date. Everything you've posted on this thread has shown that you're not ready.

I would give up trying to get him back as a boyfriend, and try to be his friend instead. But, you will have to talk to him if you want to be his friend.

I understand being shy. I was very shy as a teen. But really, what's the worst that can happen if you talk to him? He either falls into your arms telling you how much he misses you, or tells you he just wants to be friends, or tells you to leave him alone forever. No matter what he says, you won't be any worse off than you are now.
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