Okay, me and my boyfriend split awhile ago and i couldn't and haven't gotten over him. he was the first person and only i have ever slept with and i guess that's maybe why i love him so much.
he finished me because he said he dint want a girlfriend then he told me he wants me but theres things he doesn't like about me like i cry a lot or what ever.
after we split up i dint no what to do. some of my mates told me to go out with them and have fun to get him of my mind and it helped. but one night he was at the same club as me and i tried to ignore him but when i was near him he was always pulling this girl to him who he was supposedly seeing.
before i had asked him if he would ever go back out with me and he said no, but the day after he saw me at the club he was texting me saying he didn't like me dancing with other lads n told me he still had feelings for me even though he was seeing this girl he said he couldn't stop thinking about me but the next day he was completely different with me saying i was annoying and he didn't no what the future would bring so i Just left him but i talked to him nearly everyday with him texting me or ringing me. next he rings me up telling me he was thinking about how we use to be and that it made him cry then he asked me what would i say if he asked me out n i said yes then he was telling me that hes never been okay after we broke up n he misses when we use to go out then the next day hes completely different again i started talking to him n he was like what like he'd never said them things i cant get over him when he saying all this stuff i sometimes think its a waist of time.
he will soon be going into the army and my parents don't like him and all my friends say i can do better but that doesn't stop me loving him
I'm 16 and hes 18
what do you think. yesterday i saw him at the same club and he dint really talk to me and whenever i went near him he just walked away after i went home i was texting him and ask for him to tell me if he wanted to get back with me and if there was a chance of us getting back together n said ye but he like how he is for now n said lets see how tings go ok and told me he loved me
i don't no if I'm better of without him and i don't no if hes just messing me about can you help please what should i do??
how old are you? you sound young? He said outright that there are things about you he does not like, why would you want someone who is not willing to accept who you are? you need to ask yourself these questions!
I would try to distract yourself...go have fun with your friends. there is someone for everybody...you will find the right person for you...someone who loves all of you!
you are so young! I know it feels bad now, but you will find someone else who will love you in fact you will find allot of people who will love you. you will have many break ups and upsets until you find the right one for you!
My first thoughts are what are you doing in a club at 16??
I think you need to just let him go and be over it. Just as Artsy said he only wants you when he sees you with another guy. How is that fair to you when he is flaunting his new girl in front of you. He just doesnt want anyone else to have you so he is playing this yo yo game with you. Honestly, your 16. You will have many more boyfriends or love interests before you find the one. Dont put all your eggs in his basket. He is nothing and he sounds like a child the way he is playing you. Get yourself together and just move past his game.
This should be obvious to you. If you can't see the best thing would be to leave him and never look back, then you let him get his hook so deep into you that the barbs are caught and it will hurt to get away. Would you rather have a little cut, or be hung up to die?
(Sorry, a fishing analogy here! )
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