What do men and teenage boys really want from women? Just sex or love?

Slayandkill

for me (i am a 16 year old guy) i pefer love.. sex just come with it after your lady trust you.. so i say love but other people might dissagree

Beachgrl

sex. thats all any man wants

sGt HarDKorE

Slayandkill and I both said love is more important.

Beachgrl

Truly hate to be so pessimistic but I hear that a lot. Men will usually answer the way you two have to this type of question but in my experience when it really comes down to it most men will choose sex over love, or even worse get their cake and eat it too... be "in love" with someone and still get a little something on the side. I'm sure there are men out there that aren't like this but I have yet to find 1

Ceasefire

Sexual desire is embedded in our dna, somewhere. Not to mention teenage guys' hormones are more active than ever, so you could easily say "all guys want is sex." However, if you were to reach them on a more personal level, a vast majority would say what they really wanted, what really matters to them. Guys are often shallow on the outside, but break through that shell and you'll find that most of them are deeper than you could imagine.

worthbeads

Then look harder!

nicespringgirl

That's what I was told when I was younger, and I decided not to date any guy. If you are so afraid of that, then don't date. Of course you can make friends with them, wait til they grow old, become more mature, that will be time for you guys start on a date.
I am sure there are men that aren't like that at your age, but it's hard to tell, and it takes time to look harder find a one. I weighed the opportunity cost on finding a guy and focusingon school, family, friends, I decided to keep my thoughts on what is MORE IMPORTANT FOR ME. Each individual is quite different, some ppl just need a bf/gf when they are younger, some don't. Depends on what you focus on your life, that's your choice.
Anything that happens to you will help you learn more about life and others.
Always be cautious, I think you are a smart girl, you can tell who really wants love, who is just one of those guys. You are the one in control!
Good luck

rockerchick_682

Men grow up...eventually. Why just have sex with someone when you can love them and have both?

kristynn

They want everything they can get.