| What guys like is a girl who likes herself. She doesn't have to be a particular size or hair color or wear certain clothes. As a teen it seems as if that is all that matters. It doesn't. Don't buy into the stereotypes that are put on you from the media, movies and magazines. Those are unrealistic ideals and even those people don't look like that in real life. Focus on the things about yourself that you life and try to emphasize those things. Don't try to be something for someone else, they won't like you because you try to be other than you. You are fine the way you are, once you believe that, the guys sense it. They are attracted to that sense of confidence and strength. Don't seem like you need them too much. Approach them as friends and don't allow yourself to be taken advantage of by a guy cuz you think he is hot or whatever. Guys may seem interested in some girls cuz of their clothes or body, but that is just the outside. YOu can be a tomboy , that is fine. Maybe once in a while if you feel like it, get in touch with your feminine side. ONly if that is what you want. There are plenty of guys that don't want some prissy girl who is high maintenance. She might be good to look at but a pain in the!@$ to be with. YOu are probably way cool to hang out with and guys like that, mud wrestling is awesome and that is really cool that you would want to do that. You will get past this stage of annoying girls who get all the guys, and you will have your day. Just relax and be more sure of yourself and the rest will come. Don't stress out on what you don't have or don't look like. There will always be someone who is prettier, richer, smarter, whatever, and there will always be people who aren't. Stay focused on your gifts and desires, and you will shine like a star!!! | 
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