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Old Jun 19, 2006, 03:38 AM
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i want my ex boyfriend back

i really love my ex and i dunno if he will give me another chance. i need really good advise on this so if someone could help me thankyou. i asked him out and hes thinking about it he sed he likes me. he put this screenname as "steph ur sexi 4 life too" because i put it first and when i asked him how many stephs do you no he sed ummm you and this other one i sed which one is in ur screenanme and he sed the other one i sed y did you put that 4 he sed cause she put it first. it was just so strange! is he playing hard to get with me?? or just afraid to show this true feelings? what do i do if he says no? thankyou 4 ur help...

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Old Jun 19, 2006, 04:26 AM   #11  
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but how can u love someone and sleep with someone else??

are you sure this is love??

and what did he reply when you said about not wantin sex until he learns to love you?
well i slept with that guy about 3 weeks ago and now love james i dnt love the other guy anymore plus his moving to wales soon.
but james i dunno i just fall i love with him and his so sweet and loving and caring and funny i like a guy who can make me laugh.
i'm sure its love i neva used to love him b4 just fancy but i dunno i realized i was wrong 4 dumping him just 4 not tlking cause we could have worked that out or gave him a chance but i didnt and then aswell he loved me loads and i blow it that was so harsh.
well nothing really he didnt answered that i dnt think.
y do all guys want sex 4??
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Old Jun 19, 2006, 04:27 AM   #12  
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boys - men are dogs on heat and we need to control them.
Never let them control us
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r there guys in the world that dnt want us 4 sex?
i bet there hard to find
i did have a boyfriend once who was so lovely lasted 2 yrs and we neva had sex lol it was so cool he really treated me well and loved me 4 who i was.
anyway james what do you think i should do. what if he says yes and what if he says no??
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you had a boyfriend for 2 years.... and u didnt have sex, and you said it was sweet. he loved you for who you were, he respected you, you see! You are so young there is no rush to rush into things.

Yes are there are guys like that, guys respect girls who respect themselves.
Im married, been married for 2 years and been together in total of 8 years. I was 19 when i meet him. We didnt have sex for our first 4 months and you know what he tells me.. he respected me so much for that, coz he then realised what kind of a girl i was, and he was intriged by that. When u give men what they want immediatley i.e sex - there not interested. You learn this with experience.

Re: James.. just ask him out again, be confident.
If he says yes than great, and be cool and dont jump into bed with him immediatley, play it cool, let him wait
and he is ever dumps you for not havin sex.. then let him dump you coz that would prove what a total loser he is.
If he says no.. then you know where you stand and move on.
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kl thankyou wow ur married whats that like lol if you dnt mind me asking.
my mum and dad neva kiss infront of me, my brother and sis lol. you got children? so your about 27?? i'm 16 lol thx 4 the advise!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i no that was my first bf the one who i didnt have sex with, yea loved me 4 who i was and i was only 9 yrs old and then we went bkj out in yr 7, 8, 9 and evn 10 lol been like on and off. short realtionships then. he didnt even ask me if i wanted sex which was fab!! even when i was 14 he neva. he has a gf now then his been out with her for 1 yr and a half i got ova it moved on. i dunno if i cud move on with james cause i dnt like no one else
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You are so young, you got a full life ahead of you.. whats the rush.
sometimes when i think i was ONLY 19 when i meet my future husband.. even i say to myself... god i was so young!! Thou back then i didnt realise this. I would never take any of it back as he is the best thing that happened to me.

Marriage is great, but only if u make it great.
Relationships are hard work, its not an easy ride.
You have to keep at it or else it could go down hill. I mean my hubby and i still go out at wkends and we like to get drunk and be silly together
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lol sounds like fun. i guess plp are always young and need to have fun i mean whats life without fun ent it. well thx 4 your help i will keep in touch cause ur good thankyou 4 all ur help. i gotta go now byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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anytime sweety
take care and keep me posted
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i wish i neva dumped him tho i didnt even give him a chance aybe now i left skool all together it will be easlier like i could meet him after skool or go on dates probably. would be nice if i was going bk out with him.
I strongly suggest you concentrate on your education and leave the boys alone until you are mature enough to know the difference between love and lust. Your obsesion with James is keeping you from doing the important things in life and will only lead to heartache as long as you put him before yourself and your future. Please talk to an adult that you trust(parents?) Good luck!

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well i slept with the someone else 3 weeks ago and only just started loving james i dunno y but i do no i love him and missed my chance on him.
i'm very very sure i love him soooooooooooooooooooooo much, i need him i want him so much.
well he neva really sed anything.
have you got any more advise .

well i dunno hes still in skool i'm not i left finally now finshed my gsces and everything. i do really love james and hopefully he does say yes. i dnt trust my parents lol, i dnt tell them anything like when i had sex i neva told them it was my first time and i am 16 so.. i'm not gona tell them and not gonna tell them nothing bout james cause they no him because he is my cousins best mate and its really werid lol. i no i love james. thanks 4 ur advise x x x
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