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Asked Mar 6, 2007, 09:14 PM — 32 Answers
I have a girlfriend (new to dating need tips) and we just got together today. We've been crushing for a long time. Here's the problem. I like this other girl a lot. We're REALLY good friends. My girlfriend knows we're close, but she doesn't know I like the other girl. We hang out more then I ever hung out with my girlfriend, even before we were dating. The real problem is the other girl has a boyfriend he's one of my friends. He knows me and the other girl are close too The other girl is one of my Gf's best friends. What do I do?

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#21

Mar 19, 2007, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Jezz182
if you read my last post, then you know who I'm talking about. How do you know if a girl likes you? Any signs I should look for?
I didn't read your last post, I'm new to this. So tell me what's going on and I can give you advice.
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Apr 4, 2007, 07:26 PM
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I am pissed and confused! My friend is going out with this girl who also happens to be a close friend too. I want to be more then a friend to her, but I didn't tell her because I didn't want to ruin what they had. Now he wants me to break up with her for him. I guess he wants me to do it cause he trusts me and cause she and I are friends. I want tell her cause I don't want to lose friend, but I'm afraid she'll bring hell down on me, which is worse cause I want to date her! Is it OK to date a friends ex?
I think the best thing you can do, is first let your friend know how you feel about her, and make him do his own dirty work! Also, don't go for it RIGHT after they break up because I mean do you really want to be just a re-bound?
Hope everything works out.
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Apr 19, 2007, 08:05 PM
Girl trouble.
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1 There's this girl in my language arts class. She's constantly staring at me. I look right at her and she just keeps staring. Does she like me?
2 There's this girl I really like. She's amazing and I always feel good when she's around. Were friends. One of my other friends is currently dating her. She goes through bfs fast. I don't want one friend to break up with the other cause there will be akwardness when I hang out with either. But I also really like this girl. What do I do?
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Apr 19, 2007, 08:12 PM
Hope for the best cause I mean it sux cause she's your friends girlfriend...wait till he breaks up with her that's if he breaks up with her then after he breaks up with her ask her out if she says yes go tell her x-bf/ur friend if you can date his girl that's will prove that you are a good friend....
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Apr 20, 2007, 11:08 AM
Friends don't date friends ex's, whether they like them or not. And if she goes through bf's fast why would you want to be another notch on her boyfriend belt.. Come on... And the girl that's staring .. She probably does like you, or maybe your just nice to look at.. Have you ever asked her what she was looking at, or why she is staring? Maybe she will tell you what you want to know! Or don't want to know...
alkalineangel (Apr 20, 2007 01:09 PM): you find me a guy that says differntly..most men will say that the girl is off limits until your friend finds a new girl, then she is available...like I said, when its women in the same situation, it is completely different.   Source:
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Apr 20, 2007, 11:15 AM
You can date a friends ex...at least if your friend is a guy..just wait for him to get another girlfriend...he'll be over it...totally different scenario if we were dealing with girls and an ex boyfriend though...that's just off limits.
starsbooty (Apr 20, 2007 12:58 PM): its never okay to betray a friend, whether he seems over it or not does not matter.. its not right no matter the situation.   Source:
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Apr 20, 2007, 01:13 PM
Well I can say that this girl right here is married to the best friend of her ex, and they are just as close now as they were then. If the guy is mature and realizes that the relationship didn't work for him but might work for his best friend, then there is no issue. But it is only polite for the best friend to wait to make a move until the ex has started a new relationship...
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Apr 20, 2007, 01:16 PM
#1 Yes, she probably likes you, go talk to her if you like her

#2 if and when they break up it's best to ask your friend before asking this girl out, if he is cool with it then go talk to her.
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Apr 20, 2007, 01:50 PM
And in my defense, I never said to do it behind his back...I agree you should talk to him, but to say it is not right under any circumstances is silly.
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Apr 20, 2007, 02:02 PM
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You can date a friends ex...at least if your friend is a guy..just wait for him to get another girlfriend...he'll be over it...totally different scenario if we were dealing with girls and an ex boyfriend though...that's just off limits.
i feel That girls and guys have the same situation
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