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Hay there. Please help. Heres my question. Since i met my boyfriend(when i was twelve) We have been going out for a year and 4 months now. and i turn 14 in a month. We have tried having sex alot of times But it just hurts to Much for me and i dont know if its my body saying im not ready yet or it its ust normal and i should take the pain. i know its meant to hurt a little bit But this doesnt hurt a little bit it hurts ALOT !. Instead of having sex we either do Anal or just regular foreplay. Oral ECT Or he puts it in as far as it can go without it hurting and he ejaculates i dont know if this is going to get me pregnant Because i thought the only way the sperm could find the eggs were if the hymen was broken i have had heaps of tests because ive threw up in the mornings and I felt i was gaining weight and according to the doctor hes pretty sure i had a miscarriage because of what he found in my underwear with my period. Im scared of getting pregnant Cause im only 13 and my mum doesnt know about it. Can what me and my boyfriend are doing actually get me pregnant Cause we do it all the time. Should we stop or make sure its protected? and why cant i have sex is there something wrong with me. Im pretty sure im ready and i know hes the one. Help me !
ok u are way to young to be anything like that at ur age
just think if u were to get pregnate at 13 shhww that would be awful
u should just tell ur boyfriend that u r not ready
and God will be with u no mater what happens and u need to stop
If it hurts that much, don't do it. You're too young and your body is trying to tell you that! You're much too young to be getting into this kind if thing. Penetrative sex is for older people. You're a child. Whether or not he's "the one", you shouldn't be having sex until you're a lot older.
And you should definitely be using protection. You CAN get pregnant. And it's quite likely that you will at this rate.
Do your parents know what you're doing?
Let yourself be a child for just a few more years. Sex can wait, and you'll probably enjoy it a lot more when you're older.
Well first, there are dozens of infections you can get from Anal sex, esp if you are not using a condom. and of course this is for too young to be having any type of sex,
And yes, if he is in at all, or even if the sperm gets in by hand that has it on, there can be a chance of being pregnant.
so if you are not on birth control and using condoms you should not even consider it.
Also remember that at you age, legally you can not have sex, and the boy who is having sex with you can be sent to jail for having sex with you.
And honeslty he needs to go, since this is very criminal.
Also remember that at you age, legally you can not have sex, and the boy who is having sex with you can be sent to jail for having sex with you.
And honeslty he needs to go, since this is very criminal.
If he's underage too, nobody can be sent to jail for this. All the same, you need birth control, you should be using a condom even for anal and oral, and you should definitely not be doing any of this for a few more years.
I'm not trying to sound like a patronising older person who wants to telly ou how to live your life. I'm just very concerned about your wellbeing.
I diidnt ask this question to be told to use protection. im not stupid. when yourr thirteen you dont always have protection with you. I wish i never asked this question because some of you are making me feel like . But thankyou to the people who are actually giving me proper advice not just saying use protection Gosh your dumb!
Thats not answering my question i asked if you could get protection with what we were doing.
okay, my previous piece of advice was mis-interpreted so i'm starting over considering I have a red block. If it hurts don't do it. Like I made a promise with my boyfriend that if he's really right for me we'll be together forever right? And I think forever is long enough to have sex once we're past the age of consent. Yup yup. Like I know people who do those kinds of things (it's not uncommon so don't be so judgemental towards kids like that you other people). Also there's no age limit for over-the-counter birth control (from what I know that's accurate, right?). Are you both in for it or is it just him?
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