Hey if you have read my previous questions then you know all about my crush jake. I have lked him for 3 yrs. But I am way too nervous around him! I can't be myself and I don't know why. Around him I'm all quiet and blushin but around anybody else I'm loud and boistourous! (spelling wrong) haha. But the other day at lunch my friend stel calls him over to our lunch table and HE COMES TO MY DISMAY! I automatically felt the need to leave the table. But it was too late he had come. And I was like OMG. And apparently blushing like crazy. But he like looks at me with this half smile and a wave and I just smile and nod. OMG I can't even remember. Stel told the kid I loved him because she's friends with him. And o god, I don't know what to do. How can I bounce bac from this? Stel said he asked about me but I think she's lyin. HELP

Xoxo

Your mind gets worked up because you put too much stress and emphisis on how he percieves you, or thinks of you, or if he likes you.

Try to remind yourself than no matter how great some one is, they are never ever greater than you, mind you, you are no better than any one else either. That may help relax you. And try not to think about him unless your around him, on account obbsession will not help. No I'm not saying you are, I'm just letting you know.

Focus on remembering that if he likes you then cool, if not there are others who will. Doesn't make your mind tell yourbody to react so emotionally. Keeps you calm and cool, and that means approchable.

Also, Focus a little on yourself, yes be selfish, in that you are an atractive young women, smart funny and interesting. If he can't see that, his loss.

"We are what we think, all that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts we make our worlds."- Buddha

Peace be with you.

Thanks so much that's actually great advice. I'm glad somebody cared enough!