Treats me like a doormat

curlybenswife · Mar 13, 2007, 03:28 AM

He might just be shy around you because he is able to talk to you on msn etc he may feel kind of shy when he comes face to face with you as you know a lot about him that maybe the rest of the family don't.
Have you asked him why he is this way when you see each other? Try explaining that you really would prefer it if he would be a little friendlier as it makes you uncomfortable and sad.

smcthatgirl2 · Mar 13, 2007, 03:32 AM

Yeah I have talked to him about it and he admitted that he was shy sometimes. But he told me that there was nothing to talk about with me and that we are two different types of people. I took that as a bad thing and I was really upset about it. Is that just an excuse becaus ehe doesn't like me? I'm quite confused!

rebel-2 · Mar 13, 2007, 08:15 PM

Yeahhh he likes you, I got that problem as well, I can only talk to them via txts msn but then when you talk to them personally with eye contact it feels as if they are like readin our minds or sumfin (not really, but its a giveaway)

So yeah...don't worry tooo much he'l open up soon

smcthatgirl2 · Mar 14, 2007, 03:31 AM

That's just the thing I don't think he ever will . He won't even make eye contact with me. Its like I'm neverr good enuf for him. I don't get it. He says he is shy but then he talks to all these other girls what the hell?

binnyliu · Mar 14, 2007, 03:56 AM

I think you should ignore him for awhile and see what he does... If he starts talking to you more or asks why you are ignoring him then he probably likes you but if he still continues being the way he is then maybe he's just a waste of time...

smcthatgirl2 · Mar 14, 2007, 04:05 AM

I've tried ignoring him but it only lasted for a week. And he never seems to notice..that hurts..its like I mean nothing to him and he means so much to me..it sucks. He is a bit of a player and somehow through all of his faults I still seem to like him. I don't want to I just do, I think he likes someone else, or at least she likes him a lot. It kills me

binnyliu · Mar 14, 2007, 04:25 AM

Do you like him for him or cos he's a player and a bit of a bad boy?

smcthatgirl2 · Mar 14, 2007, 04:27 AM

I like him because at times he can be really nice and we get along and he shows glimmers of hope. I don't no I guess I just want him ! It irritates me that he doesn't want me

binnyliu · Mar 14, 2007, 04:34 AM

Maybe you only want him cos you can't have him... I find myself in that situation sometimes, and then sometimes when I got the guy I don't want him anymore and then feel guilty about it.

Treats me like a doormat

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