I'm dating a boy that is 2 yrs. younger than me and we are both in love. He wants to get married now...is that to young for him...and how do i kno that it is real then there is his former friend that i dated before that is now wanting me back i love him dearly what do i do...stay or go...

kristynn

The problem is not him being 2 years younger... the "problem" is who do you want to be with? Figure this out first.

thatoneguy11

2 year is not a big age gap. you guys should be fine love is ageless

sexiibabii

well how old are you (not that it matters) but you should probably take a few days to really think of who you could see yourself having a future with and dont think of the other persons feelings although you dont intend to hurt any one but think about what is best for you=)

shygrneyzs

You did not state ages. If he is 18 and you are 20, that is significant in that boys just do not mature emotionally as fast as girls do. Now if you are 27 and he is 25 - the difference is made up in maturity. However - the key issue is not so much ages as it is stages of emotional development and readiness for a long lasting relationship. You are not ready for a long lasting relationship with this guy. You have this guy who has popped back into your life and you have questions about how that would work out. Which is normal! But be honest with yourself and with your bf. If you want some space, take it now. If you want to find out if the other guy is a real deal, find out now, before you make a long term committment and then wonder "what if". But you have to be honest with your bf. Don't do this behind his back and play him off the other guy.