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hey well my problem is i am really good friend with this boy and i really like him but i dont no how to tell him and im afraid if i tell him he might say no and i might lose him as a mate also one of my friends likes him but i dont no how she will react if i tell her and if i tell her she will tell everyone what do i do?
My suggestion would be to tell this guy how you feel. If he does turn you down, no worries. Don't act any different towards him, and the two of you will still remain friends. If all goes well, then he'll say yes and everything will be peachy.
As for the girl, you don't have to tell her how you feel about him. If he turns you down, chances are, he isn't going to go telling everyone about it, least of all this other girl. If the two of you begin dating, well, she can't really say anything, and it won't matter anyhow because the two of you will be together.
So, don't worry, and go for it.
What you need to do is give him hints, flirting hints. He'll figure it out sooner or later. If he doesn't show any signs of affection or doesn't flirt back, just move on becuase he's the type that will hurt you. But if he does flirt back, just let him know how you're feeling about him. Good luck!