theres this girl....

Fr_Chuck · Nov 20, 2005, 01:21 PM

Well if she is pretty hot, just forget it, she will alreaddy have a line of guys ahead of you.

No honestly, you will get turned down a 199 times most likely before you get out of high school. Sometimes the girl that turns you down at 15 is the one you take to the senior prom. Life is like that.

The main issue is that if you worry about what may happen, nothing will ever happen.

Yes, you will get turned down, if you don't, odds are at 15 you and this girl if you go out will break up, it happens, but if you don't ask anyone, you will find yourself taking your ugly cousin to the prom latter in life.

someguy222 · Nov 20, 2005, 01:43 PM

She probably doesn't since she's never had a boyfriend before and she's kind of shy. And since we are friends dontcha think that she would be more willing to go out with me?

jeffatl · Nov 20, 2005, 01:57 PM

I say go for it man, what do you have to lose here? Take a chance and tlak to her, hang out with her, or just make her smile. Good luck buddy, I'm rooting for you!

someguy222 · Nov 20, 2005, 02:05 PM

Thanks for the advice, but didn't I say not to say something like "just go for it and ask her out"

someguy222 · Nov 20, 2005, 02:57 PM

Keep the advice comin please

jeffatl · Nov 20, 2005, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by someguy222

thanks for the advice, but didn't I say not to say something like "just go for it and ask her out"

Dude, that's what you need to hear. What else can we really say here? You sound like a good guy, just get some confidence in yourself and get to know her. Hang out with her or something buddy. Aske her to do somethig with you. I'm not exactly clear on how well you know her, but if you want to nab her, you are going to have to find a way to get to know her better. Shy girls are tuff to get to know, but try and find something you guys have in common and just talk to her about that. Good luck man. Keep us posted.

someguy222 · Nov 20, 2005, 05:24 PM

What would you suggest? Like going to a movie with her or something? If I do that would it be better to go with a group of our friends or alone?

jeffatl · Nov 20, 2005, 05:31 PM

Again, that would all depend on how well you know her. If you are friends with her I would say a movie would be good, but if you don't really know her well that might be akward for you both. I would ask her to come out with you and your buddies, maybe tell her to bring a few of her friends with her, that way she will feel comforitable as well. You have the right idea bud, when you are getting to know a girl its all about comfort. Don't push it, but let her know you are interested. Just flirt with her a bit when you hang out, but don't smother. COMFORT, make her laugh, and make sure she has a good time. Just be cool man.

JollyRoger · Nov 20, 2005, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by someguy222

wat would you suggest? Like going to a movie with her or something? If I do that would it be better to go with a group of our friends or alone?

Never do a movie as a 'first date', or at least don't make it the only thing you do. How are you two supposed to get to know each other while focusing entirely on a screen instead of each other?

I'm shaky on the 'solo or group' thing. If it's a group thing, you might be making yourself out to be her 'friend' only, which is something you don't want to do. If you guys are semi-friends already, truly, a solo venture shouldn't be too hard for her to accept.

theres this girl....

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