okay i go to this for after school and im 12. so there are teens sitting down on and im sitting down behind them. then my mother comes to put me up to go home. and the lady that runs the place asks my mom a question. they start talk then my mom has to pay for something. as my mom walks by them one of the girls said that when my mom walks she goes up and down. so like everyone no one likes their mom to be talked about but i did not want to say something because im shy. so my question is if they talk about my mom or any body i know what should i say.if someone could write back soon because i go their like everyday that would be good.

J_9

Just ignore it.

If you say something you are doing exactly what they want. They are TRYING to get a reaction out of you. If you ignore them then you aren't someone who is fun to make fun of and they will start looking for someone else to pick on.

All they are trying to do is get attention. If you say or do something to get back at them then you are responding EXACTLY the way they want you to.

I know that you want to defend and protect your Mom, and that is very admirable. But be the bigger person and just think about what terrible people they are and that it must be terrible to live a life where they have to make fun of people just to get attention.

They are not worth the energy. I promise.