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Hi everyone. This problem has been bugging me for several months now, so im giving one of these sites a go, seeing as i cant find the answer myself.
The point is, i want to find a hobby. Seems simple, right? well, for me, not really...
My life feels like there is something missing. I want, and im willing, to commit hours, days, years and maybe even my life to something. You see all these people who spent their childhood's training and practising their hobby and they are passionate about it. They wake up every morning and know that they have that passion, an occupation.
Ive had a sort of a hobby, drawing. The thing is, its not something i want to do when im bored. I want something that i can get a kick out of, something physical but accessible. I mean suggesting surfing is not really it, because the nearest seaside is several hours on the train. I dont mind a bit of travel but nothing like that, because i would probably practice every, or every other day.
Ive considered things like dancing/breakdancing, BMXing, boxing and a whole bunch. Ive never tried them though because i dont know what i want, or if i should even bother. Theres always been an issue about me being a girl, as most people dont consider half of some sports suitable for girls. Also the fact that im 15, that it might be too late for me to start up something as most people start up really young.
Well, if you have any suggestions on what i can consider, if i should even bother or any advice on how i can find 'my something' then please share!
Thanks.
Oh this little bit might help answer:
Im an active person who likes spending time with my friends outdoors. Im outgoing, usually cheerful, adventurous and slightly mad. Erm, im tall (ive been told iceskating and horseriding is not for me because im taller than average).
Cravia,
Hello first off and nice meeting you! First of all, I have to ask, how tall are you? If anyone is silly enough to say you're too tall for horse-back riding, well they're nuts (to put it nicely). I'm not the tallest person in the world, but I am 5'9" and I've been riding horses since I was 3! Do you think John Wayne would have made it to where he did if someone told him he was too tall to ride horses? I think not. Sometimes you just need a bigger horse. A lot may depend on the type of riding you would like to do also. I don't know of any jockeys that are over 5' tall, but it doesn't matter what size you are to ride dressage, or western pleasure, or even barrel racing (that's really fun). But, there are so many things you can do with the right horse--I suggest that if you get the chance, spend as much time with them as possible. You'll get to see there is a lot to love.
Also, if you like to have a release on life but want to tear things up a bit, I suggest 4-wheelers (or quads depending on the part of the country you're in). Just make sure to stay safe and respect them, but they too can be tons of fun. Plus, they are great in the mud!!
This isn't a suggestion in the physical department, but have you tried taking up a musical instrument. With an instrument, the possibilities are endless.
The first thing I want to say is you have the right idea. Just know that you are never too young, tall, or just you being a girl in general should stop you from anything. I would suggest that you just kind of look on the internet, or go to your town's park and rec and see what sports they offer. Local sports are good to start off with because they are close and if you really like them you can always go on to state, and national stuff. Just keep your head open, one day you will FIND something you wanna do and there won't be a problem. Sometimes you might jump from thing to thing, especially in the case of hobby's, but that's alright so just keep your eyes and ears open. Maybe you will hear about something cool at school you are interested in or something like that. I would suggest that you try your local parks and rec though mainly because you can get a large varitey of sports that are right in you area. But like I said, don't worry because one day you will find it.....
I'm 17 and i've just started salsa dancing, i love it! i pick it up really easily too, the fact that you're still young means you can still pick up things quickly no matter whether you do them from the age of 5 or whenever.....as long as you enjoy it thats all that matters! i suggest trying dancing though, if 1 type doesnt work out then try another, there are so many to choose from! =] and i'm sure you'll find one that you love!
As a child of the 80's, let me point out that Dungeons & Dragons is still pretty geeky... and not very physical... but a fun way to spend time with your friends and have some fun...
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umm if you are in School then maybe you should see what they have to offer and if ur friends are in something then maybe you could look at a practice and decide if you wan to atleast try it.I wish I had been in ur posistion, but my parents started me in athletics when I was little, but my ex best friend started softball when she was 11. Then when she was 13 she attempted BAsketball.
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