I have this one group of friends and we've been friends for awhile. There is me, a girl named ashley, and 2 guys named Trent and Ryan. Ashley and Ryan have dated a couple of times but have stayed friends all through out there dating experiences. Ashley recently started dating Ryan best friend Josh. They planned on not telling Ryan but yesterday a girl (who hates ashley) told Ryan. Ryan got mad, said some stuff but then forgave her and said he still needs and wants her. Ashley is quite stubborn and is now saying she doesnt want to cause anymore drama and doesnt want to be his friend. They can't stop being friends. Were a group and we get through things together. How do i help Ashley realize that she needs Ryan just as much as he needs her? How do I help them get through this problem?

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vic-vic1994

maybe you should remind her of fun times u have had together as a group?! I'm in a group of friends too and I know how important it is to stay together. Tell her that your worried about what may happpen to the whole group if she's not friends with this boy any more. It may make her realise she is being stubborn and selfish! I'd talk to her on her own!

Good Luck!!!
Vic-vic1994