ok there is girl that is 16 years old i think at school i am 17 and she started likeing me like a week ago. she is the one who started talking by saying hi or hey when she sees me on the bus or hallway i like her too. on the bus i always sit at the back seat and she turns her head around somethings to me and smiles and look forward but i don't know what to do to be a friend with her does anyone got a tip on what to do?

jahnplay

yes well problem is i don't have a car to drive anywhere

ScottGem

Depending on where you live, that may not be a great impediment. I didn't get my drivers license until I was 21 because where I lived had a great public transportation system.

Talk to your parents, they may be willing to drop you and the girl off at the mall or whatever. And, last I heard, walking still worked as a mode of transportation

Capuchin

Sooooo 20th century

jahnplay

well she lives realy near me like 5 houses away from me

ScottGem

That works nicely.

jahnplay

her birthday is comming up what should i get a flower?

colonel000036

I understand about the materialistic aspect and the negativity this could bring, however it 'tis the season. Right? I am not talking about a whole tree. One ornament would be a reminder of who you are and every time she sees it on the tree she will think of you. This may not be a bad thing. It is also a nice thing to do. Is that so wrong?

colonel000036

Shoot this is perfect. If you know it is her birthday then you have an excuse. I dont think think that would be sending the wrong message as another postee stated.

ScottGem

Ahh I see where you are coming from here. Using the season to help her remember him. Ok I read it a bit wrong. (see below)

Here I agree with Colonel, this gives you a good excuse to get her something to remember you by. I wouldn't go with a flower unless its a silk one that doesn't die. If you know she likes stuffed or plush animals, you can get a small one inexpensively. Another idea is one of the musical cards that plays a tune when you open it.

I do think you should make it cute and inexpensive (under $10). Do you know her friends? Maybe they can help you with things she likes.

colonel000036

Okay, I can admit when I am wrong. Going to extreme with the jewelry is way overboard not to mention really suspicious. Keep things cordial and within reason. Respectful. Going and getting something really fancy would be inappropriate. Billy Wilder once said, "Hindsight is always 20/20!"

Colonel