[Felly123]

Well I made my boyfriend mad by tellling him how I feel. I said that... "i feel like a 5 year old gurl following him around"... because of our age difference... hes 17 and I'm 15 that's quite a difference.. I said this because his friends kind of leave me out of things because I'm so young... but really its only two years.. and to me age doesn't matter its based more on maturety... but I really like him and he's mad at me and he told me I made him feel like sh**. OK so then I found out that I have mono and that he could possibly have it... I got mono by drinken off my friends drink.. and she has it but at the time we didn't know.. and I didn't know I had it until I went to the doctors yesterday (March 26th, 2007 ) but anyway he's mad at me no for that now too.. but its not like I knew that I had mono I wouldn't have kissed him if I knew and I told him there was a possiblit I might have it and he said he didn't care.. but then I found out that I DO have it FOR SURE.. and now he's Pi*s*d... I have a fear that he's going to break up with me.. what should I do.. :confused:

[DrJ]

Ok first of all, slow down, collect your thoughts, and re-read what you write for corrections. What exactly are you asking here? It sounds like there are two situations going on.

First, that he got mad at you for saying that you feel like a 5-yr old following him around. Is this because he is a big whoppin 17 yrs old and you are making him feel old?? (hahahah... kids these days). Anyway, tell him to get over it... big deal!? Either that or by saying that, you are making him feel guilty for dating a 15-yr old when he is 17. As for as THAT goes, he needs to either accept it or you both need to break up. If he can't take it from you, what makes him think he can take it from ANYONE else? (friends, etc.)

The second issue is the mono. First of all, if you didn't get it from him, how did you get it? And WHO did you get it from? Second, if you DO have it, I hope your not doing anything to keep spreading it around... to him... or anyone else. And if he's mad at you for getting mono, then screw him. You didn't choose to have it, right?

Aside from all this, you shouldn't live your life trying to please the men in your life. You need to stick up for yourself and not take any sh*t from anyone. It's not always what's wrong with you that make boys mad... its what's wrong with THEM.

(yes, for the record, I am a guy)