Re: me and my ex
Hey,
Breaking up is always the hardest thing... if your boyfriend is definitely not wanting to be in the relationship, then I'm telling you, you need to stop calling. When my fiancée and I broke up, it has now been three months.. I felt sick and wanted to be with him everyday.. I quickly put aside all the reasons we did break up and just wanted to be with him... thats a BIG NO. Go by the saying "Out of sight, out of mind" For your own sake, do not call him... yes no one said that it will be easy, he will be on your mind, you will cry everyday and yes you will go through a whole range of emotions and think that you will never ever feel better unless your with him. Sweetie, I feel for you because I know how much it hurts.. but believe me, it will get better. The best thing for at this time is to spend time with your family or friends. Occupy your time so you don't think about him all the time. Look if you two were meant to be togthether, then your paths will cross again, but you broke up for a reason... so let that sink in, and be happy with yourself before you rush back into anything. Do not talk to him, and just be by yourself and do your own thing for awhile. It does take time and you will have your good days and bad days. The fact that he has said you have to stop calling him so you can get over him, tells me that he is not thinking of reconciling and maybe he talks to you to help you through this hard time. That is not doing you any favours... stop all contact and trust me you will see in a few months the difference. It will also help to talk to your friends who can comfort you when your down... there is light at the end of the tunnel... and you will see it, I guarantee you.
Take care... : ) Be strong!
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