[bfm]

K for starters, sorry for any spelling mistakes.

K here we go, I've never told anyone this before but they will never see this,

I met this girl about 2 years ago, and we've been like friends ever since she has always been flirty, but she is to everyone lol, but latly, she seems to be like sort of pulling my hair, but sort of in a ask me out kind of way, I think you get what I mean, but I'm not sure, and well, I do love her, always have, I'm not sure, but well my question is, douse she want me to ask her out, and how should I ask her out, I'm kind of a chickin lol.

[fredg]

Hi,
Chickens get over being shy, too. LOL.
I was a chicken at one time, but got over it.
Call her, tell her who you are, and ask her if she would like to go have a hamburger, or whatever, and go to a movie maybe. That is the only way you willl know if she wants you to ask her out!!
Just force yourself to ask her, and you will not be as nervous after that.
It's something most of us had to do, forcing ourselves. And, if she says "no", then at least you will have the satisfaction of knowing that you have what it takes to at least ask!
You will have many times in the future to ask girls out; and have to start somewhere. Do it!!
Best of luck,
fredg

[bfm]

Thank you, for replying, and I know what your saying I've tried in the past to like force myself to ask her, but I cant, its like hitting my head against a brick wall, I just choke up, I want to know, if there would be some sort of way that is asking here out, but not, kind of suttle

[fredg]

Hi,
If you can't get up the nerve to ask her, then forget it.
You could try this:
Next time you are talking with her, in person, just say;
Would you like to go to a movie with me?
Then just wait, don't say anything else. Wait for her to say something.
If she says "yes", then you are home free.
If she says "no, I don't think so", then just simply say, "just asking".
(or, anything else that you want to do, such as go out and get something to eat?).
That is not the hardest thing in the world to do: simply asking "You want to go to a move?"
Best of luck,
fredg

[bfm]

Thanks for the help dude