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head_banger_chick · Jul 29, 2004, 10:16 PM

I went out with my ex for 2 weeks then he dumped me , then told me he like me again , again , again , and again . And kept asking me out non stop for 2 weeks . Then he gave up statted going out with another chik . But that was last term . Now I like him!! Aaaaaaaaaa god ! My friends keep telling me that he is yuk , but I really really like him ! What should I do ( and how do I find out if he is still with that chick )?? :'( :'(

Jahiem28 · Jul 29, 2004, 10:30 PM

HI I see you want your ex back. You stated that he dumped you and then try to get back with you. Did he give you a reason for the break up? Then he started seeing another chick hmmm sounds like he wanted a little freedom to have some fun. I know you have feeling for this guy. If u can give the message board a reason for the break up. Were you guys having trouble or was everything cool thanks

head_banger_chick · Jul 29, 2004, 10:39 PM

OK well , he sent his friend to dump me . Because some one told my ex that I didn't like him ( but I did ) . So his friend dumped me for him and tlod me "he said he doesnt wanna go out with you anymore because a little birdie told him that you dont like him "
So then I told the friend that I DID like him and what that person said was all a load a crap ! So in like 1 weekk my ex started asking me out again !

confused2504 · Jul 29, 2004, 11:23 PM

I am very sorry to say, but the way you are explaining the situation is coming across very childish.

I mean c'mon, who gets their friends to do the dumping. How freakin immature is that?

Frankly from a outside point of view, you and your partner are a classic case of young love. I don't know how old you are, but I'm guessing you are both young, maybe 13/14. Please correct me if Im way off.

All I have to say is, if you really like this guy then you tell him. If he wants to be with you he will accept your offer.
Talk things over with him and explain face to face that what was said about you was all lies. You do in fact want to be with him and have never changed your mind.

Frankly, from what you have said about this guy, he is very immature and doesn't know how to have a relationship and treat people.
He should make his own decisions and not listen to his "friends".

Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. That's all I can say. See how it goes. Hope I helped.

PS: Ask him if he is still with the other girl, if he is.. then its up to you how you deal with that! If he is with the other girl, I suggest you move on.
There are plenty of other guys I'm sure would like to be with you.
Just keep that in mind when you speak to him.
Good Luck.

Jahiem28 · Jul 30, 2004, 08:55 AM

Well said Confused2504 ;D yeap sound truly like young love. He could have been man enough to dump you himself but the reason for the break up is base on a rumor or lie. It was easily from him to obtain the facts you are the primary source. GOOD luck I agree with confused2504 advice

head_banger_chick · Jul 31, 2004, 05:03 AM

You know what ?
I'm not going to do any thing . Because I don't even know if he likes me or hates me or just simply 4got about me . I mean looks at me and giggle s... wats with that ?or just stares . And I can picture walking up to hi in p.e saying "hey , how've u been ? ya ........ so are you still with that chick ? hmmmmmmmm.......yep......." and then the big scilence .
No I think ill just get over myself .
But hey thatnk you guuy for the advise !