should i talk to her or not?

cutie08 · #1 Feb 22, 2007, 04:41 PM

ok so my bestfriend and i are like sisters and are always together and there for each other
but over the last week that our other close friend is at her dads house she has been a to me and i dont know why i havent done anything toher execpt be nice and try to be there for her cuz she is going threw some hard times right now and i have always been there for her and now she is just being a and ignoring me and
and i dont know what i did but i feel like the whole world is walking out on me and i cant deal with it i dont even know what i did
and i mean i dont want to talk to her about it cuz im just afraid that that will just make it all worse
but i dunno
i just dont know what to do im stuck
what should i do?
please help me

jadedskye · Feb 26, 2007, 12:54 AM

I've been there and the thing is you have to options, ignore it and hope the universe falls into place again or be pro active chances are the change has nothing to do with you and is reflecting things she is going through by herself so just be there for your friends but meanwhile do something just for you, concentrate on something you're good at, trust me, it works

dunnowat2do · Feb 26, 2007, 01:11 AM

talk to her somehow. try to break through. If that doesn't work then just back off. give her some time to herself. if she really needs you she will call.

teammom38 · Jun 6, 2007, 07:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cutie08

ok so my bestfriend and i are like sisters and are always together and there for each other
but over the last week that our other close friend is at her dads house she has been a to me and i dont know why i havent done anything toher execpt be nice and try to be there for her cuz she is going threw some hard times right now and i have always been there for her and now she is just being a and ignoring me and
and i dont know what i did but i feel like the whole world is walking out on me and i cant deal with it i dont even know what i did
and i mean i dont want to talk to her about it cuz im just afraid that that will just make it all worse
but i dunno
i just dont know what to do im stuck
what should i do?
please help me

Depending on what the problem is, you should try to get your friend to meet you somewhere and talk to her. If that doesn't work, don't push it. My best friend and I have had many, many fights over the last 30 years. But after a while, we both forget why we weren't speaking, and move on. And don't say that I'm old, and don't know what I am talking about. My friend and I have known each other since 6th grade. A lot of arguments, let me tell you. But our friendship and love and respect for each other are strong enough to withstand ANYTHING!

help2many · Jun 6, 2007, 07:29 AM

give it time- things get better when people cool off-- if you are great firends you will make it through

loveme1 · Jan 29, 2008, 09:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cutie08

ok so my bestfriend and i are like sisters and are always together and there for each other
but over the last week that our other close friend is at her dads house she has been a to me and i dont know why i havent done anything toher execpt be nice and try to be there for her cuz she is going threw some hard times right now and i have always been there for her and now she is just being a and ignoring me and
and i dont know what i did but i feel like the whole world is walking out on me and i cant deal with it i dont even know what i did
and i mean i dont want to talk to her about it cuz im just afraid that that will just make it all worse
but i dunno
i just dont know what to do im stuck
what should i do?
please help me

u said u cant deal with it u already have now u been strong standin there beside her feelin her pain noing u have pain to right or wrong

loveme1 · Jan 29, 2008, 09:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cutie08

ok so my bestfriend and i are like sisters and are always together and there for each other
but over the last week that our other close friend is at her dads house she has been a to me and i dont know why i havent done anything toher execpt be nice and try to be there for her cuz she is going threw some hard times right now and i have always been there for her and now she is just being a and ignoring me and
and i dont know what i did but i feel like the whole world is walking out on me and i cant deal with it i dont even know what i did
and i mean i dont want to talk to her about it cuz im just afraid that that will just make it all worse
but i dunno
i just dont know what to do im stuck
what should i do?
please help me

honey u already won from wat i am readin casue u no u can help her all u want in to your friend want help it is nothin u can do but stand there and be a friend like u don u understand



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