Ok, I like this guy that is about 3 years older than me that I go around in a group with our mates.I have liked him for a while now but he had a girlfriend so I didn't do anything and kept it quiet, I still haven't said anything. when he and I was at our mates sleepover we all got drunk ( I didn't he did) and we were playing hide and seek in the dark in the guys bedroom...so I hid on the bed and he found me and grabbed hold of my legs and the others turned the light on and went 'hey you back off you have a girfriend' to the guy and I went all red and I rolled of the bed so quick I didn't see his reaction. Then I went and hid in the attic inthe dark in the corner and he came and hid with me. Later after a few more drinks he stared to talk to me more and tried to talk to me in my language ( im english but he is spanish) but couldn't and I caught him looking at me once and now after a week he has broken up with his girlfriend and yesterday night I gave him a neck massage and he got all confy with massaging him then i stopped and he sighed....strange.

How should i flirt?

Sooo..what do ou think I should do and do you think he could like me and what do I have to do to get him to like me

the title meant to say does he like me a bit? lol

talaniman

Do you really think he is ready to jump into something with you, after just falling out of a relationship?? Be real, he isn't ready for what you want, unless all you want, is doing the wild thang.

chuff

I was thinking what Tal wrote. If he did leave his girlfriend for you, what does that say about him? What does that say about what's going to happen to you when the next girl comes along?

shizukamelodi

I like this guy that is about 3 years older than me that I go around in a group with our mates.
i have liked him for a while now but he had a girlfriend so I didn't do anything and kept it quiet, I still haven't said anything. when he and I was at our mates sleepover we all got drunk ( I didn't he did) and we were playing hide and seek in the dark in the guys bedroom...so I hid on the bed and he found me and grabbed hold of my legs and the others turned the light on and went 'hey you back off you have a girfriend' to the guy and I went all red and I rolled of the bed so quick I didn't see his reaction. Then I went and hid in the attic inthe dark in the corner and he came and hid with me. Later after a few more drinks he stared to talk to me more and tried to talk to me in my language ( im english but he is spanish) but couldn't and I caught him looking at me once and now after a week he has broken up with his girlfriend and a few days ago night I gave him a neck massage and he got all confy with massaging him then i stopped and he sighed.While i was giving him a massage his mates started saying "ooh ur going hard to the guy" and he said" well she is good at this" and i went all red.

yetserday i gave him another massage head neck and back and he was saying something in spanish slang i didn't understand somethign like oh your doing something and i didn't catch the rest but he was all relaxed .My friend tried to give him a massage but he didn't act like he cared.

My other mate (boy) asked me for one so i gave him one and he took his t-shirt off in the middle of it and i started massaign his back and the guy i like was next to him and looked over at th guy and started saying things like " god r'nt u cold, dude put ur t-shirt back on!!
(And stuff like that)" and after i finnished the other guys massage. i asked who wanted a massage and all the guys in my groups hands shot in the air and the guy i like put his hand up last like he was embarassed.

The other day we were all doing arm wrestling[he is the strongest guy in the group( yesterday he gave a pigy back to 5 guys in our group at once!)]i am the strongest female in our group i went up against him and he kept squizing my hand and he beat me and he said fine i'll let u beat me with 2 fingers and he kept putting my hand in the right positions and he still own!

Tonight we are all going to a Club and i dunno if i should do anything there.
Is he flirting with me? Am i flirting with him? What should i do.

XenoSapien

Relax. Have a good time with your mates, and don't expect or hope for anything. Clear your mind, and the results will reveal themselves.

Niagra Falls is beautiful because man never messed with it--it was able to develop itself on its own. Do the same.

XenoSapien

kp2171

you are both flirting. dont force it.

personally, theres nothing sexier than a confident woman... but that means no pretense. dont try to play to be anything you arent. go with the moment.

if a girl smiled at me and made eye contact, it was good enough for me if i was interested to make the next move... if hes too shy to chase you down, maybe he doesnt feel the moment the way he needs to. a guy who is too shy might never take the initiative or be willing to chase you.

but it sounds like you guys are having fun enough as you are, so nothing to fret about.

if hes interested he should act when you show him friendly attention. if he doesnt act, he either isnt interested or he isnt the kind of guy to chase you down... which is ok as long as you are willing to always make the first move. some women cant stand that. some can.