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My so-called.
"mother."
is beingn very.. UGH lately..
Shes Not A Mother..
No matter who says wat.
but anyway.
she has accused me of doing drugs. [3 times]
THINKS i'm going 2 get knocked up at the age of 14.
shes just.. AHH
me and my boyfriend..
we're NOT stupid.
she thinks im going 2 be some random whore
liek she was.
"she had my half-brother.. unknowning who the father is."
shes OMG.
Helpp...
PLEASE.
I'm a parent of a 14 year old. And as a man, I'd be worried about my daughter having a 16 year old BF. 16 yo boys don't generally want to be discussing flowers and unicorns and puppies-sorry to tell you but most boys are thinking about when and from whom they will get sex.
Does your mother have reason to think you MAY be into drugs? have you done it before? has she caught you kanoodling /touching/kissing your BF?
I think you may find she is being very careful for you-parents have a great thing called experience. it makes them sceptical.
The best thing would be to explain your position about the not having sex etc. not doing drugs etc. to her in a frank discussion to ally her fears, if you are honest (and you can be trusted) she will feel a lot better and may just back-off.
16 year olds minds are a little more developed then 14 year olds that kind of answers why your mother is angry or the way she is. your still a child you should be focusing on school homework and friends but thats just my opinion, sooner or later your going to think about sex especially your bf hese 16 , thats proberly why your mom thinks your going to get knocked up soon and also dont you think it is embarrassing for her as a mother to know that your 14 year old child has a boyfriend already ?maybe not to you now but when your older you'll understand more. what happens if your cousins or family members find out? kind of embarrasing towards her. .she proberly feels like shes failing as a mom because of your behaviour. my opinion.
yea sweety she could just be concerned because he is a little older then you. Not that that would be a problem its just boys can be deceitful sometimes. like said before shes just protecting you. As a young mother myself it is sometimes difficult especially if no one is there for you. I have my family so i am lucky. And im not with the father either. Sometimes things happen. i would just say since she also had a child at a young age she wants you to be able to enjoy life a lil, get your education and then later do the grown up having baby things. Im lucky im native american and have help in different ways. and i work and do it all im ok but you should just try to get along with her. I had a lil drama with my mother also but its just the age and the fact that she is pushing your buttons becuz she cares. Also how old is she? maybe its menapause(or however spelt) LOL
uh yea no i dont think she'll go that far to think your an embarassment. If anything she should be ashamed of herself, SHES THE PARENT. meaning she puts food in your mouth and clothes on your back while you sleep under her roof. THings are not Free and especially not cheap now a days. if she dislikes it she would take action somehow. So i agree in the sense that 16 yes yr olds minds are more developed and she is just looking out for you. So yea, just had to say that.
i never said she was a embarrissment at all. my words were "dont you think it is embarrassing for her as a mother " as A mother. anyways hope my opinion helped bye
My so-called.
"mother."
is beingn very.. UGH lately..
Shes Not A Mother..
No matter who says wat.
but anyway.
she has accused me of doing drugs. [3 times]
THINKS i'm going 2 get knocked up at the age of 14.
shes just.. AHH
me and my boyfriend..
we're NOT stupid.
she thinks im going 2 be some random whore
liek she was.
"she had my half-brother.. unknowning who the father is."
shes OMG.
Helpp...
PLEASE.
maybe you should just try talking to her. im only 19 and no i wat its like ta feel that way about your mother, but after my dad died... i now no that my moms not going to be here forever, so try talking to her and try not ta look at bad side of it all maybe she just doesny want wat happened ta her the same thing ta happen ta you.
well im glad to hear your making good choices.
but your mother is and will always be, a mother.
better yet, you're one and ONLY mother you will ever get to have.
and the day she is gone you will feel dumb for ever posting this.
I know parents are really something else.my mom asked me questions like that,
alllllll the tiiiiime!!!!!!!!!!!
and it irritated me that she would think I'm that stupid!
haha.but your mother clearly cares for you, and only wants the best for you.
as dumb and cliche as that sounds.
find a way to spend good time with her.
and you will see exactly what I mean.
You are not going to want to hear this. But, most of the time, our parents are right. They really do know more than you believe in the current. Shes just worried about you. After all, it is her job to protect you and make you a better person. So, she has to worry about you. Thats what makes a good parent. Dont be so hard on her when she gives you advice or tries to tell you something you dont wish to hear. Its her job and she loves you or else , she wouldnt have any rules, she wouldnt cook you dinner, she wouldnt send you to school, she wouldnt talk to you when you have problems, she wouldnt care at all if you ran away and never came back. It sounds to me like you are just frustrated that she makes you follow the rules. Trust me. YOU WILL MISS HER AND ALL THE THINGS THAT BUG YOU NOW, YOU WILL WANT IT BACK WHEN SHE IS GONE. I promise, you will miss it, everysecond of it. Enjoy it while you can
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