First off i am posting this here becasue i am not an "adult" yet, but anyways

me and my girlfriend have kind of been talking bout haveing sex. we both know eachothers past and we want to have sex, not for the pleasure but just to share that meaning with eachother, one of the many draw back is, i am addicted to sex. once i get a tast of it, i cant stop! i am not streching the truth, when i talk to my friends about their pasts at first they sound worse then me but once i tell them how many times i have had sex, i feel kind of manwhoreish she knows this and we have kind of put it off for now, but i am worried, will i be like this my whole life? will i beable to have a good marriage?

Curlyben

How old are both of you as this is very important information before anyone will offer any advice ?

svatnsdal

You are very young, and it's normal for young men to want sex, sex, and sex. I would say, go talk to a doctor. Also, make sure you always use a condom! One time with no protection could be a serious disaster. One day you will learn the difference between sex, and making love. Always be open to your partner and always ask questions. I would say you are a very remarkable man to find somewhere to open up and ask! Most boys don't have the courage to ask, it's always better to ask.
Overall, I don't think you're old enough for someone to tell you it's never going to stop. That's why I say, go speak to a doctor. If you are like this your whole life, that's okay, it's normal.

13sldr

i am 17 and she is 16

13sldr

let me also add(so i dont get a lecture rather than help) both of our families are well of and if i were to get her prego. we would be able to support a baby finnacualy.

ang8318

Would you be able to support a baby? or would your parents? Not a lecture, just pointing something out. Would you really want a baby at 17? Anyway, I think you need to discuss this with your parents, and I would suggest your GF getting on birth control, just in case.

Smoked

If you think you have an addiction you need to seek help. Medical, godly or otherwise. What do you think that having sex will do for your relationship? Do you think you will be closer? Do you think it will validate it? You are young man, be careful in your decision during these years because they will stick with you forever.

LearningAsIGo

It isn't up to your families to financially support a baby.
You, on the other hand, would be responsible for financial, emotional, physical, legal, and spiritual support of any children you could have. Are you ready for that?
Based on this alone, I HIGHLY recommend waiting to have sex. This mentality proves that you are not mature enough to handle the possible consequences of sex. Just because you've had it before doesn't mean you should continue to.

Altenweg

Firstly, you are young. All young men want sex, 24/7 if they could get it. It's quite possible that your feelings are normal, but if you are worried then talk to a therapist about it.

Secondly, sex will not make your relationship more meaningful, really it won't. How long have the two of you been together? You are both still so young, take some time before you jump into sex.

Thirdly, if you decide to take that next step then be mature about it and use birth control. I can't stress this enough, Birth control, birth control, birth control, PLEASE! Even if your parents are willing and able to support an unwanted pregnancy (which isn't their responsibility) you still need to consider the effect it will have on you and your girlfriend, and foremost, the child. Take every precaution to avoid pregnancy, there are enough babies being born to teens out there, don't add another.

Good luck, I hope you come to the right decision. Oh, and let me point out. I think that deep down you posted this because you know that you aren't ready to take this step with her, think about it.

Benjimeister

I just want to say that I agree with most the above, Think carefully about it, and if you decide to have sex. USE A CONDOM.