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The problem kbc is that people close to me are worried about me and some have called me an alcoholic and I'm starting to fear I may be.

I went out last night and refused to drink, despite the...

My problems were all fibally get solved. Then I started drinking. It was casual at first. Just one. But one turned to two. Turned to three. Turned to six. Its like once I start I can't stop myself. ...

Actually, judy, that has nothing to do with this. I figured out that problem before this starteed to really become an issue. Its really only been the past week or so that this problem has arisen

As said before, dating is not illegal, having sex is.
Your parents really do just have your best interest in mind, but if you're mature enough to date an adult, then you must be mature enough to...

Over the past two weeks, I've found myself partying pretty hard. I hate beer, so I only drink liquor when I go out. I don't drink every time I go out, but over the past week and a half, I've been...

Homegirl, you are completely right. And we have both decided not to make any type of commitment, because we know the risks. I hang out with other guys, have plenty of guys hit on me, but I just don't...

Exactly. So what I need is advice on how not to be thinking about him all the time. How to not feel guilty when I go out with other guys or chat up other guys. I've even found myself hiding behind...

My Best friend is good friends with him, so is her boyfriend. I just haven't ever met him... so yeah, he's been checked up on.

And yes, I know it's a double standard, and that's where my issue...

I know for a fact he feels that its so much more than a friendship. And I think that's why I feel guilty, because he's anticipating a futre together, as am I, but I know I can't cut myself off... but...

Well the reason I hit disagree was because I do not believe professional help is so necessary.

And what I mean by I've changed, usually I let my past (whether the present was going well or not)...

You've read my other posts.. I'm pretty sure its been made clear that I can't really have that with my family. Not the way I should.

I don't know maybe I worded it wrong, I don't mean I'm needy in that I need constant attention, I'm clingy, etc.. But like, I need to know that there is actually someone out there who truly cares...

I do go out and enjoy myself, I just said that. But I haven't foundinteresting guys yet, but then again, the year is still young. And I would like for somethng to evolve with a guy. I'm going to...

PrivateID, I understand what you are saying, and thank you. But I want to make it clear that I do know he is in the military. He is who he says he is. We have video chatted and he is friends with one...

I'm not romanticizing anything. That would imply that I'm trying to turn it into a relationship when I cant, and that's not what's happening at all. Besides, I'm trying not to fall. I'm telling...

Califdad.. I see what you're saying, but at the same time I feel like you think its pointless.

He got phone privileges last night and I talkked to him for almost an hour, until I realized it was...

I mean you guys are right, it really is a friendship. But we have a connection. And I know its hard to say that from meeting someone online, but its true. We have a connection. Many of the same...

I've always been the secret girl that's being cheated with... but I've noticed some signs of cheaters are they're really quick to get "emotional" and qquicker to get physical with that girl. But as...

So my friend iintroduced me to this guy friend of hers via fb. He's at a military academy currently and has restricted communication abilities. We talk via Facebook alll the time. He broke the rules...

no. even if you are sexual and the parrents don't approve nothing can be done legally, depending on your state. In Maryland, there is a four years rule. If there is a four year difference and its...

I can't move out. I have no job. Nowhere to go. And I'm living on campus anyway. So what would I do with my stuff in the meantime? That's ridiculous

So all I really have left to do is clean out my desk so my sister can have it. And my best friend offered to help and my mom agreed. But then she proceeded ot tell me that if my room is not up to her...

Well how do I keep them from going through my things when I'm gone. I don't really have anything specific I don't want them to see, other than like letters I've written but never sent, yet saved......

They don't listen to anyone. My friends mom has tried to reason with mine in the past, and now they won't even speak to each other. Also my best friend and I reallly need to see each other. We...

I'm leaving for college in less than a week, and everydady have been waking up and starting to clean and pack right away, but there is still much to do. I also have mono, and am supposed to be...

Yes you can have a very powerful connection with someone online, but you know why? Because they can make themselves seem perfect. They can easily hide important info that you should know about......

I agree with redhed.. that's a weird answer. Ask him. Odds are he's one of those guys who likes how you look and likes you for your body but doesn't necessarily care about YOU

I'm going through something kind of similar. You got to wait it out man. Obviously this relationship with this guy is new, so it could end quickly especially if she's not happy. But as much as you'll...

When you say hookup and possibly date do you mean you want to have sex with her then possibly date her? If so, dude, that's messed up. You've got to tell her how you feel, but don't hook up with...

Too young for anything serious, probably, too young to test the waters and start chattin up boys, nah


I don't think it's a huge deal. But like excon said, don't be having sex, because that's...

So even being just friends, nothing more, JUST friends is a bad idea?

I know it sounds like you'd be hurting her, but you've got to be straight with her. Tell her exactly how you feel.. or rather how you don't feel. Girls definitely prefer a guy to be blunt because...

I know its tough but you've got to respect his wishes. I know you won't feel fulfilled until you figure out what the deal is, so maybe try to contact him again in a week or two. Do you guys oftn...

As of right now I think Toy Story 3 and Eclipse have the top slots

Homegirl, you're probably right. I just have a hard time willng myself to ignore the calls etc. I wish I wouldve read that post before he called me last night... he kept telling me that he really...

I didn't see him like I was supposed to. But we got in a fight via text, then we got over it and he promised to call, and didn't. No surprise. But then he apologized and promised to call again.....

I know. And you guys are right. But could you please just answer the question I asked instead of telling me not to go? I want to know what kind of body language will indicate he's lying or being...

I don't know what he wants to talk about but we're supposed to go to lunch. I'm NOT going to get into a relationship with him. I know better. But do you have any tips for me to better understand his...

No I'm not trying to get drunk break them up and blame it on that. It was one time, doesn't happen often. He says he wants to see me again so we can talk about things...

No he's working it out with her. They're fixing whatever... I'm trying to let go. Its just really hard. I deleted his number but drunk texted him still because I have the number memorized. I don't...

So I figured this would just be merged anyway...

I've tried to leave it alone, as has he, but we've both been contacting each other infrequently. We tried to talk about how we both felt on the...

Homegirl, you're right, and you're wrong. You didn't feel what I felt. It felt like more. And I truly think it was, because me and him have spent so much time on the phone since vacation... before...

I'm just trying now, to figure out how to get over this. I think his girlfriend has the right to know. Other people have agreed with me here, but I don't know if its my place to tell her. He says he...

I hate to be a downer, but there is nothing you can do. She's getting married. I went through this same kind of thing a few months back. You've just got to be happy for her and move on. Its hard, but...

Thanks everybody. But I just found out that he cheated on his girlfriend with me. So there's my answer.

Which is why I want to get to know him better? I'm asking if that's wrong? Or if I should just let this all go.

Well he left on Saturday, and has been texting me since. He texted me all night Saturday, all day yesterday and today, and I didn't have to initiate the conversation. That's what leads me to believe...

How much further are we talking? Should you have sex. NO. Mess around a little more, I wouldn't advise it, but you'll do what you'll do. Just make sure YOU really want it. And you're not just doing...

That's the most messed up thing I've ever heard. If they're truly your friends, they wouldn't ask this of you because sex is something special. You should experience it, especially your first time,...

Girls like to have friendship first and foremost. Then let it blossom, without a romantic relationship being pushed. Back off, and be her friend. The best relationships are between bestfriends...