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Old Feb 9, 2008, 07:46 PM
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Is the safest sex abstanance?

I don't think so, NO teens will commit to something and they don't have the right to. Nobody should force that on teens, they don't know what they want and I think they should learn from there mistakes. That's my opinion, what's yours?

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Old Feb 9, 2008, 08:13 PM   #2  
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I don't think so either, for a start, it's not sex!

It is the best way to stop STIs, STDs, unwanted pregnancies and a whole host of emotional issues!

No matter what you do teenagers will have sex, it's what their bodies are screaming at them to do! I feel a greater weight needs to be placed on education and education about contraception, although a lot of countries / states / parents go against this as it's seen as on-par with abortion.

And no, you're right, you can't force someone not to do something. It'll force them to do one of two things; either want it even more or become a sexual recluse!
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Yes, and thats another thing, there NOT going to stop having sex because it's what they crave. And they teachers should provide more information about it and stop trying to prevent sex. Just make it understood.
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I went to a Catholic school where the sex education was pitiful and had (naive) Catholic parents. I was never taught what a condom was or any form of protection for that matter and thus, as is human nature, I decided to find it all out for myself. (As, I might add, most of my classmates were doing!)

So it's no surprise I was having sexual contact with girls at age 15 and full blown sex by the time I was 16.

Now I'm not saying I would have abstained if someone would have explained the ins and outs of sex (excuse the pun) to me ... but maybe I would have had the knowledge to make some more informed choices!
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Yes, the safest sex is abstinence. No STDs, no babies, no worries. Sublimate!

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retiredmanvan : This is a great and truthful answer!
godsbabygirl267 agrees: NO sex is the safest 'sex'. ALthough all teens have some urge, it should be curved.
MOWERMAN2468 agrees: finally an answer WORTH reading.
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Originally Posted by allroadsleadtojamaica
I don't think so, NO teens will commit to something and they don't have the right to. Nobody should force that on teens, they don't know what they want and I think they should learn from there mistakes. That's my opinion, what's yours?
First of all, you need to brush up on your English grammar and spelling so that you can put together a coherent sentence.

To answer your question....Abstinence is NOT sex.....that's the reason it is safe.

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boredINmind disagrees: Did it occur to you that English is not some people's first language?
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Old Feb 10, 2008, 10:38 AM   #7  
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First of all, you need to brush up on your English grammar and spelling so that you can put together a coherent sentence.


THANK YOU
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There are several important issue, first abstinence should be taught as the best method for teens, since most are not emotionally ready for the results of sex. and by doing this, you will not stop all, but you will stop some from making some serious mistakes.

Then other methods, but also the reulst of having sex should all be taught.
We get far too many older people here that still thing that pulling out is a birth contol method. So learning what not to do, but also being reinforced that just not doing it, is also the best option.

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Wondergirl agrees: Bio or soc teachers who assign their students to carry around an egg or a Baby-Think-It-Over for a week or two get a rude awakening about parental responsibilities.
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**EDIT**

I said, "Bio or soc teachers who assign their students to carry around an egg or a Baby-Think-It-Over for a week or two get a rude awakening about parental responsibilities." I meant the students, not the teachers, get the rude awakening.
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How can we expect our children to understand sex when they can not even spell the words to make up a complete sentence. I am from an older generation and sex was not as rampant among teens as it is now. I think this lead to another fact, divorce was not so rampant among newly marrieds as it is now.

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Wondergirl agrees: And the center of our lives was family and church....
MOWERMAN2468 agrees: very valid points. I guess the folks today think that marriage has a 90 day warranty or something nowadays. If you don't like your spouse, they carry back the present one and trade for a new one. What is the world coming to?
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