Privacy

Curlyben · Apr 24, 2012, 03:50 AM

She clearly doesn't trust you.
You need to work out exactly why, although I can think of several reasons off the top of my head.

You then have to regain her trust and earn her respect back.

Campdraftqueen · Apr 24, 2012, 03:56 AM

But y wouldn't she trust me i have never broken her trust or anything. I just confused. But if she didnt trust me then y would she let my boyfriend stay the night with me at my house and he is 15 i am 14

Curlyben · Apr 24, 2012, 04:00 AM

This is something YOU need to figure out, probably by talking to her..
Antics like this most likely don't help you case at all: http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/a...nd-653168.html

Fr_Chuck · Apr 24, 2012, 06:51 AM

At 14, I would not not sneak, I would require you to allow me to check your online history, sorry, your mom is trying to protect you, and most likely she bought the computer, most likely she is paying for the interent, So I would say you have to understand that as a child living in your parents home trust is gained, it is lost, and at the end of the day parents have a duty to watch out and check up on you.

talaniman · Apr 24, 2012, 08:13 AM

Its you alright, as you have been going behind her back, and doing things that could bite you in the butt later. Why she allowed your boyfriend to stay over night is beyond me, and there must not be a dad around, but for sure a 14 year old should have NO privacy, thats not earned, and verified.

Basically its her rules that apply. You are a dependent she hopes to protect, and raise. Adults seldom will trust the good sense of a 14 year old, and neither will you when you have your own 14 year old daughter, who thinks she is an adult.

Homegirl 50 · Apr 26, 2012, 12:33 AM

You lost your virginity at 12, I would be checking up on you too.
Your mom has every right to go through your things periodically. She no doubt paid for them and is responsible for you.

Campdraftqueen · Apr 26, 2012, 01:44 AM

My mum doesn't know about me loosing my virginity is that bad

Homegirl 50 · Apr 26, 2012, 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Campdraftqueen

My mum doesn't know about me loosing my virginity is that bad

Your mom may suspect you are doing things, although I don't know why she'd allow your boyfriend to spend the night.
I would be checking out your computer and phone too. Why do you think you should be trusted with privacy, given what you are doing.

talaniman · Apr 26, 2012, 06:09 AM

She might not know, but suspects you have been up to something. I think she knows myself.

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