I just found out im 1 and half months pregnate

im 15! i always wanted kids and i dont agree with abortion!

im not with the guy i slept with it was at a party and we both had a bit too much too drink and hes one of those guys that every girls wants too be with and he just use girls!

i didn't care at the time because i didn't have any feelings for m but now theres more and i don't know how too tell him!

and i can't even think about tellin my mum!


please help

bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

Okay I'll list the benefits of abortion:

Hmmm I can't seem to think of any.

Unless going through with the pregnancy is going to SERIOUSLY harm the mother or baby, then yes, abortion is nessecary.

Just because a woman gets pregnant at such an early age for stupid choices doesn't mean that the unborn child should suffer.

Altenweg

I agree, but I still think it is her choice. I would prefer adoption, but that is also her choice.

Raising a child at 15 is hard, especially without the support of the father, which is the case here. It's a little late for the talk, but I don't think she should have to pay for this mistake for the rest of her life. Whatever she chooses, it's her choice, no one elses, not even her parents.

Like I said before, I would personally never get an abortion, but I do believe in pro-choice. The only time I really have a problem with abortion is when people use it as a form of birth control, that is not acceptable (in my opinion). I hope the OP figures this all out.

o NitSuA o

no i am not.

ScottGem

If you were her parents you would be breaking the law if you tried to force her to have an abortion.

We pride ourselves on the quality of the advice we give here and your advice has not been high quality.

kp2171

my mother became pregnant with me at 15, had me at 16.

it wasnt easy. it wasnt the best plan she could have had. it changed her life. didnt "ruin it". i wouldnt recommend it to anyone as a lifeplan.

but it can be done. im proof.

ajewett16

Wow sweetie...this is a big problem. You need to tell your mom because she will be upset but she will help you. You need help. Your mom is the best person to help you. As for this guy you slept with...find him and tell him. He is the father and the father needs to know even though he might not be with you. You are 15 and you shouldn't have gotten pregant because a baby chances everything. Good luck.

shazza1000

hi hun im in the same position im 2 months pregnant, not with the father , i went to the family planning clinic and they gave me some very good advise u should try it x good luck x

jennyboo122292

you probably should get an abortion.
being a teen mom isnt good.
you wont be having much of a life after this.
go to planned parenthood and make an appointment to get an abortion.
and no they wont tell your mom, confidetiality.

achampio21

um, just a thought but has anyone noticed that the girl who asked the question hasn't responded since she asked it? If you look back over these 4 pages of responses, about 3 of the four are bickering. Just thought I would point that out.

achampio21

I totally agree!! I would rather have high quality advice rather than a down right order.