ok theirs this fat ugly annoying stupid delutionaly girl at my school she's realy annoying and thinks all the guys like her when they make fun of her i completly hate her she makes fun of me like the guys she follows do the thing is most of them are my friend and are just jokin around they call me "emo" everyone's just messin around with me but she's just goin at it and im trying to be the better person by just tryin to ignore it only once have i made a coment and she almost socked me well that would have ended up by her being beat up well i realy want to do something about her she'll make fun of me then say she's my friend whats wrong with her and whats a way i can prevent myself from dissing her and embarising her more no matter how much she deserves it

cal823

no one deserves to be ridiculed, and yeah, some people in school can be a bit......weird, or fat, or watever *cough* but still, no one deserves to be ridiculed. dont let her physical differences or whatever change how you judge her behaviour, thats being discriminative or whatever. And hey, being tolerant means your the better person! who cares what others think about you
i hope you can have the strength to tolerate and still be nice, just dont waste your time talking to people who cant be civil aye, i know its hard, but its worth it at the end of the day, when you know you did the right thing under pressure

hvacservicetech_07

Grow up, stay away from her, and do what you should be doing at school, learning? Do kids still do that??

Rockabilly1955mama

Ignore it. She will get bored when you don't pay attention to her words of dislike. She'll move on to the next victim. Don't let it get to you.

Hope this helped!

Ging1994

the phisical diffrences i've all ready gotten over when i found out she lived next to one of my bestfriends it the way she asks and treats me that bothers me the most

rockerchick_682

she makes fun of you because it makes her feel better. just ignore her, or play along with it. oh I know I cut all the time, etc.

Rockabilly1955mama

Tell her to leave you alone and pick on someone else becuase it ain't bothering you one bit!
She'll get over it.

shygrneyzs

That's right, ignore her, act like you don't hear her, and walk away. It is sad that this girl is doing the same thing that no doubt that has been done to her. It is her way of getting back, of evening a score, of lashing out in her hurt. But you do not, and your friends do not, have to put any energy into responding to her.

Now you can report her for harassing you. You can talk to your school counselor and request a face to face meeting with her - spelling everything out and saying you wish no verbal contact from her and you will not tolerate any more negative remarks. When you say that with an adult witness - she is on the line to shape her attitude up.

I know high school seems to last forever, but it does not. This girl does need help - counseling, as what she is doing is really hurting herself more.

MishcaParker

I am really sorry to say it but the advice you have been given will not work! I know this because when dinsaurs walked the earth (about 10yrs ago) I was one of those popular girls who enjoyed nothing more than torturing the unpopular kids. Ignoring it or walking away will not stop her but if you ask her "Do you feel better about yourself now?" after she has been nasty to you, she will feel really embarrased, sometimes a bully just wont stop though. Stand up for yourself girl! You do not need to be rude or nasty to do so but do net let yourself become a doormat and erode your self esteem,you have the right to always stand up for yourself and trust me I only picked on those who didn't stand up to me.

Ging1994

its not realy that she's hurting me she's just being annoying and i dont want to just act like i dont care because she'll tell her mom who will tell my friends mom that im mean and incensitive and im scard she'll belive her