hi again . im finding life difficult as a 15 year old gay whos not out. i have lots of friends, both male and female, i enjoy talking with females and gossiping with them but i enjoy the company of males because im attracted to them . almost all of my male freinds are tall handsome and muscular which makes some situations awkward. i have a feeling some people already know im gay and one friend who often sleeps round mine i have a feeling is gay. he puts on the "gay act" when we both sleep in the downstairs doublebed together, cocking his leg over me and so on. some times he goes really far and i get excited :P. he always asks me to massage his back so i do so. i leave him loads of really big clues to my sexuality but hes a bit slow. should i ask him? how and when? i know im young but im very mature for my age and very intelligent. post back please

Fr_Chuck

I am not a beleiver in any child ( 15 is still a child) having sex, no matter gay or straight) so wait, and come into grasps with your own feelings.
Also you are who you are. You need to come into grasps with who you are and discuss this with your parents

GlindaofOz

I agree with the Father. This is going to be a hard road no matter how you dice it. You definitely want a support system in place before pursuing any relationships.

sGt HarDKorE

i bet he is gay, just bring it up in small amounts. And yeah everyone is telling you to not have sex, but thats not always easy, im your age and i am having a hard time waiting till i am married. I guess you can't get him pregnant so no worries of a baby, but think about maybe STD's and such. Ok so maybe he doesnt have any but what about the next guy or the guy after?

Fr_Chuck

And just being 15 is tough enough also, even boys who are straight have to deal with dating, sex issues and so much more. And if you are gay this is alot of extra stress from freinds, family and even strangers

Canada_Sweety

sGt HarDKorE

im not sure if i am gay, i really hope not, but i think i am... So i kinda no what your goin through. Maybe you could give pointers to me

Canada_Sweety

sGt HarDKorE

Im not really sure. I have kind of compared my self to kids my age. Im not sure if its because i have a crush on them or maybe i just want to be like them or something. Im not sure im just really confused. Is it possible to never love anyone? I have gone out with a couple of girls and, they are nice and cute, but nothing really happened. Do other boys truly like the girls they date? Most of the time i feel pressured into asking a girl out, so i never had the chance to go in on my own. Im not sure if i really answered your question, theres more to this but im totally lost.

jrb252000

You are so young alot of teens go through experimenting. However if you are sure you are gay or bi then there should be some type of support group for you. I would take dating one step at a time. No need to rush until you are comfortable with your ownself.