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Old Oct 19, 2009, 04:12 PM
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Orgasm trouble

My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and have been sexual for about five months or so. We are three years apart. I have never had and orgasm with my boyfriend or my ex boyfriend who i was with for eight months. My boyfriend think that i don't like having sex with him. How can i have a orgasm to show him i like him?

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Old Oct 19, 2009, 05:19 PM   #11  
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i no but we are very close we have known eachother for a while. I no that i am underage but we are still going very slow.
You don't even know that "know" is not spelled "no". Concentrate on school.

How can you be "going slow" when you've already had sex?

How does your response even matter when you've been told that it is illegal for you two to be having sexual contact?

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Old Oct 19, 2009, 05:34 PM   #12  
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Age of consent (legal ages of consent for EVERYWHERE) listen kid, this is very irresponsible behavior! Not only are you risking your boyfriend of getting convicted of statutory rape, but you are also risking yourself, you could get pregnant, (condoms are NOT 100% baby proof, nothing is 100% baby proof for that matter) and you could get an STD, which im guessing you dont want to get into that stuff when you're only 15. I understand growing up, and you're interested in sexuality but relationships shouldn't be based on sex! You should only have sex with someone you love, and trust. Maybe you "think" you love this boy, but chances are a couple months down the line your not going to be dating him anymore and then you're going to realize: wow you just gave away your virginity to some guy that you didn't even have feelings for. Sad but is likely to happen

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Old Oct 19, 2009, 08:29 PM   #13  
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If going slow is having sex and not being able to have an orgasm, what is going fast?

I occasionally pay for dinner, buy concert tickets, to show my boyfriend that I love him - I didn't know an orgasm on my part would do the same thing for a lot less money!

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And presumably I wouldn't have to change clothes after work. Or wear high heels.
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And presumably I wouldn't have to change clothes after work. Or wear high heels.
"Come" as you are.

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Old Oct 22, 2009, 11:25 PM   #16  
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oooookkkkk....

1.) I agree... too young for sex.
2.) I'm a total hypocrite cause i lost my virginity at 15 to a guy who was 17....
3.) I wish daily I hadn't.
4.) If you're not having an orgasm when you're having sex with this guy or any other guy maybe it's because you are subconciously thinking about what might happen (pregnancy, parents find out, etc.) and not focused on your s.o.

&& if youre so worried about it.... STOP DOING IT.


Don't give up your innocence so easily. Trust me, when you get older and in a more serious relationship with some guy who really wants something real with you hearing about you having sex with atleast 2 guys by 15 is not something he's gonna want to hear.
I am 18 now, currently in love. Been with this guy for 8 months. No sex, cause we agreed it would become constant and we want more than that from each other.....

Consider all the possibilities.

And STOP posting stuff about your sex life online sweetie. not only is it illegal it's immoral.

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