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I have been dating this girl who is 16 years old, while I am 18 years old. I am currently in college while she is in grade 11 highschool. We have been dating for more then a year now and I am just wondering about a few things.
I have had some trouble with her flirting with other guys in the past, she has gotten better but I notice she still has some slip ups and it hurts me. I was on facebook a little while ago and I was just looking at one of her pages and she left a comment on one of her "Summer flings" pictures. It read "hey hottie! how are you and (insert her name) I miss you <3." Supposedly her summer fling (before she met me) just broke up with his gf and she was just being nice. But I have been trouble getting over it, is something wrong with me?
Just recently some guy in her class asked her to come over to his house and watch a movie with him. She said yes because he is supposedly a shy, awkward dude and he got the nerve to ask her. I was pissed off when I heard this from her, I immediately told her that I was uncomfortable with this and she said "I don`t have to go if you don't want me to." I felt bad but I was still mad that she actually said yes.
She is working two jobs and she has highschool to deal with while I am working one job and have college to deal with. We don't see each other very much, we didn't even see each other over the long weekend (thanksgiving weekend.. I am Canadian). We had plans for tomorrow but she canceled them to go with her friend to her friends grandparents house for Thanksgiving. She said "I already had the plans laid out and you can't cancel them." Unfortunately she has canceled our plans before and did today to see her friend.
I don't know what to think about this situation, am I over reacting? It seems like everything even the small things tick me off and I get mad at her. I don't know why. I love her very much, I would just like an opinion on how I should be going about all this.
tired of the flaming and stupid comments. The comments you guys are making now are just funny.
There was no flaming or stupid comments. We were all dead serious. And still are. No humor here. We get too many "am I pregnant" questions after unprotected and pull-out sex to be laughing about it.
Ok, I've read through this entire thread. The first thing that stood out was your talking about your choices. The thing is YOU have no choices. The choice here is her's and her's alone! You have no say in whether she gets an abortion or not. You can tell her what your preference is, but the choice is still her's.
However, according to my research a minor can have an abortion without parental consent or knowedge.
So here are the facts.
1) If she is pregnant, she gets to decide what to do about it.
2) You had sex with someone under the age of consent, therefore you are guilty of statutory rape. Whether you are prosecuted for it or not is up to her parents and the local prosecutor.
3) NO method of birth control is 100% effective. The pull ou method is so INEFFECTUAL as birth control, its not even considered birth control.
4) It doesn't matter who pulled it out. YOU allowed it with a minor. You needed to be the responsible one and you weren't.
So, you better pray she isn't pregnant and you need to CEASE having sexual intercourse until you are both ready (financially, physically and emotionally) to have a child.
Ok, I've read through this entire thread. The first thing that stood out was your talking about your choices. The thing is YOU have no choices. The choice here is her's and her's alone! You have no say in whether she gets an abortion or not. You can tell her what your preference is, but the choice is still her's.
However, according to my research a minor can have an abortion without parental consent or knowedge.
So here are the facts.
1) If she is pregnant, she gets to decide what to do about it.
2) You had sex with someone under the age of consent, therefore you are guilty of statutory rape. Whether you are prosecuted for it or not is up to her parents and the local prosecutor.
3) NO method of birth control is 100% effective. The pull ou method is so INEFFECTUAL as birth control, its not even considered birth control.
4) It doesn't matter who pulled it out. YOU allowed it with a minor. You needed to be the responsible one and you weren't.
So, you better pray she isn't pregnant and you need to CEASE having sexual intercourse until you are both ready (financially, physically and emotionally) to have a child.
Clearly you didn't read the whole thread .
And I was kidding about the pull-out method, I am not that dense.. sarcasm was initiated with white colour text.
These are my sishes in your case. I hope the girl is not pregnant but if she is I hope she has the baby and gives it up for adoption and tells you to go to H+ll.
Then I hope you get prosicuted for sexual assualt and child molestation and your picture and I D is put up on every bulletin board in the Internet. Also I hope that if the profession you wated to go into requires a license and you will not be elgible.
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