Older boy w/ pretty gf.

AandZ4ever · #1 Aug 3, 2007, 09:43 PM

Dear readers,
I am 15 and have never had a bf. i am not a prude i love many boys lol especially zac efron but anyway main thing is i am totally in love with this boy jake who is one year older than me and has a gorgeous gf. i am shy and all i hav ever said was sarcastic things or made fun of each other cause i am nervous all the time apparetly. lol around friends tho totally different person wish he could see that. lol i dont kno what to do if u read my other question then u will see i have problems lol. but i need to kno how this is going to work i mean he is gorgeous to me most people are like no way. lol but i feel so for him. he just i dont kno. can anybody give me advice ? am i destined to be alone forever???<3

Canada_Sweety · Aug 3, 2007, 09:47 PM

You're 15 years old......... HOW are you basing being alone for the rest of your life on you ilfe for the past 15 years???
C'mon, sure we all have our time of ripening, and yours will come soon, and what's more, he has a gf so you should probably stay aaway from that.
Just try not stressing over that right now and enjoy your youth.

s_cianci · Aug 4, 2007, 04:54 AM

You're only 15 and you have your whole life ahead of you. Don't worry about never having had a boyfriend ; you're actually not missing out on very much lol. As for this guy with the girlfriend, I wouldn't come between them. That is a sure way to collect enemies instead of friends. Build your self-confidence and be true to yourself. Do what's right for you, not what others want or expect you to do.

Dennis777 · Aug 4, 2007, 06:04 AM

Hello.

He has a girl friend so he is off limits at least until they split up. If you try to split them up you will be the one getting hurt so don't try any crazy stunts to make them break up.

I know you feel like your in the middle of your life and not having Mr. Right is the world to you right now BUT you will make it through this and many other earth shattering problems in your life. The quicker you learn to relax and enjoy what you have not what you want the better you will be. Life is given to us to enjoy and its our choice if we live it in a positive way or negative way. You have the ability to make everything that happens in your life positive and exciting so why not do it.

You don't have Mr. Right in your life OK that means you get to enjoy looking for him. It can be a lot of fun kissing all the frogs on your way to finding your prince.

Good Luck
Dennis777

nicespringgirl · Aug 4, 2007, 08:37 AM

You are only 15 yr old, I am 23 never had a bf too, I don't regret b/c I have built a solid foudation on other parts of life.
We both have a long way ahead of us.
Wait til the right one and good one, don't fall easily, u can learn lot from this website before u decide if u want a bf or not.
Good luck.



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