i love her but she loves someone elce

thisismylife1 · #1 Apr 14, 2008, 07:21 PM

ok i first met this girl when she had moved to my school. right when i had seen her i knew she was the one. from that day on my love for her grew and grew. we became friends and started talking. i finnaly asked her out and she said that she had to think about it. so a couple of days went by and we kept talking and talking i asked her to the movies and she said yes i rwaly thought i had found the right girl. well the time had come and she said no she didnt want to go out with me so i said ok. we where still friends though and i still loved her and wanted her. one day i went over her house and she had toled me that her and another guy (who is skinny and more atractive) had been over there house and that they had sex. i acted like it didnt bother me but when i went home that day i was crying all nite. i know that he only wants to go out with her for sex but i want to go out with her because i realy love her not because i want to do that stuff to her. now im realy upset and praying that they dont go out i really need some help what should i do?

ISneezeFunny · Apr 14, 2008, 07:29 PM

hey I just answered to this same question in your other post.

o NitSuA o · Apr 15, 2008, 01:53 PM

that really sucks dude. unfortunately from what i read she only considers you a friend... but what i was shocked about was that she told you she had sex with another guy when she knew you like her. i know you feel betrayed, and i think it is time you moved on and let her go...

btw how old is this girl and how old are you?

blacksinz · Apr 22, 2008, 10:58 PM

Ouch dude. This can't be helped all u can do is hope that she will realize what a great guy u are compared to the other guy. So now just stay friends and act as if nothing has happened

bradysmama17 · Apr 23, 2008, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by thisismylife1

ok i first met this girl when she had moved to my school. right when i had seen her i knew she was the one. from that day on my love for her grew and grew. we became friends and started talking. i finnaly asked her out and she said that she had to think about it. so a couple of days went by and we kept talking and talking i asked her to the movies and she said yes i rwaly thought i had found the right girl. well the time had come and she said no she didnt want to go out with me so i said ok. we where still friends though and i still loved her and wanted her. one day i went over her house and she had toled me that her and another guy (who is skinny and more atractive) had been over there house and that they had sex. i acted like it didnt bother me but when i went home that day i was crying all nite. i know that he only wants to go out with her for sex but i want to go out with her because i realy love her not because i want to do that stuff to her. now im realy upset and praying that they dont go out i really need some help what should i do?

Tell her how you really feel about her, and let her know that he is using her for sex only



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