My girlfriend recently broke up with me after almost 8 months together and its killing me not knowing why. I did ask her obviously but i could tell they were all excuses and not the real reasons. She is one of those drop dead gorgeous girls in High School that every boy dreams of and wants and i have a feeling someone purpously sabotaged the relationship with lies. It all started when i got back from schoolies week on the gold coast, she just seemed like a different person. I get the feeling that while i was away someones been drumming into her head to break up with me or someones told her that i was messing around up at schoolies week which is a lie. I didnt once cheat on her. Am i being paranoid or was this time apart just an eye opener for her. Its the worst thing not knowing why the love of your life doesnt want you in theres anymore. Has she been leading me on this whole time? Any advice?

tickle

Your problem is she probably knows she is the pick of the crop and cant see herself being with any one guy and on an ego trip. Could be she just doesnt want to commit at this stage of the game and wants to play her options. If she cant give you a good reason then it sounds like she really doesnt know why herself. Move on and maybe later on you two can get together when she is a little more mature and probably not so full of herself.

talaniman

She obviously doesn't think your the love of her life so it doesn't matter her reasons for dumping you. Just chalk it up, and move on. Trying to figure out what goes on in the female mind, is a waste of time, especially a young female.

JBeaucaire

No, I disagree, the problem is that you can't control the bad influences other people allow in their life. You just can't. Some situations are simply unfixable.

Be the best YOU you can be. Stifle urges to punish her in any way, the best revenge is a life well-lived in the face of your rival. So have a good life. Be positive, energetic, attractive personality-wise to others and one of two things will happen:

1) She'll override the bad influences and come back to you because it is better for her to be with you than them (not likely)

2) You move smoothly into your next thing and develop a life away from her, and your success will secretly be regretted by her. (more likely and good for you no matter what)