This is not a joke! What should I do?

tiffandsam14 · #1 May 31, 2007, 07:31 AM

Please... My mom and dad are divorced. My mom and I go to Ohio every summer. She told me that she is thinking of moving up there some time soon. I really want to go but I live with my father and all my friends are where I live. I don't want to leave them. But I also want to move to Ohio. What should I do? My mom keeps pressureing me into moving up there with her. Even around my friends. Please help!!! What should I do???

kepi · May 31, 2007, 08:49 AM

You could move with your mom and arrange so you get to come visit your dad during school vacations or something like that. Regarding your friends, there are phones,e-mail, social communities, etc, so I am sure you could work something out

MrsJoseph06 · May 31, 2007, 08:55 AM

Hey,
Make a list of the pro's and con's of both! Like the user above me said you can arrange for visits with your Dad. It will be a big change to move but some time those are the best changes. It gives you a chance to meet new people and be a diffrent person! Well Good luck with your decision.

startover22 · May 31, 2007, 09:09 AM

I agree with MrsJoseph, and to add ask your mother to do the same thing with the pros and cons, you guys might come together more than you know about this. A fresh start is always good too. Good luck sweety!

paganheart71 · May 31, 2007, 09:46 AM

Pros and cons is a good idea. you should talk to your dad. you could visit mom during the summer, see how you like it during that time and if you want to stay. stay. your dad will understand, just remember to talk a lot.

Rockabilly1955mama · May 31, 2007, 09:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrsJoseph06

Hey,
Make a list of the pro's and con's of both! Like the user above me said you can arrange for visits with your Dad. It will be a big change to move but some time those are the best changes. It gives you a chance to meet new people and be a diffrent person! Well Good luck with your decision.

First off, great advice!

Secondly, talk to your parents about what you want (also the pro's and con's).



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