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I'm 13 and my mom won't let me wear make-up, but my dad will. She won't give in. She also won't let me date. I'm sooo mad at her, but I try not to show it. What should I do?? PLEASE DON'T ANSWER WITH YOU'RE TO YOUNG ETC. kay thanks!!
Why on earth would you want to put that rubbish on your face anyway i bet you have lovely skin too, sweetheart trust me when i say you will look back on this in 10 years and think what a fool i was.
Have you tried actually talking to your mum with out any attitude or grumpyness im sure you can come to a compramise.
As for dating boys uuuuugggghhhhh boys suck and get you into trouble and cause nothing but arguments with your friends.
Enjoy your teens learn lots and get yourself good grades there the most important thing to worry about so that you can become something later in life and be happy.
Good luck.
actually when i talk to my mom i dont give her attitude and she doesn't do compramises. i do get myself good grades and boys dont suck. kay anyone else have advice?
Short and to the point: Suck it up. Your mom doesn't have to compromise.
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actually when i talk to my mom i dont give her attitude
You're 13. Everything you say and do has the attitude that goes with that in it. Always. YOU may not notice it, but every single person around you does.
You asked for advice you got it no one said you we're gonna like what you heard, and if you honestly think boys are the most important thing in life you really do have alot of growing up to do.
you could do all the decieving that my friends use to do. They would put make up on on the way to school and take it on the way home. You'll find that even adult women to that.
I only suggest since she does not do compromises. Because a little lip gloss and some eye liner would be compromise. That way your skin will stay clearer.
ALso talk to dad, see if he can assist her in compromising. I did it with my daugther. Now 17 I love the way she wears her make up. I even took her to a make up artist, It cost be $200 for the consultation, but she learned about the do's and don'ts. She now wears Bare Essence ? , i think that is how you spell it. All natural product.
On the boys issue, sorry ... i will agree.. boys are jerks and they want only to get into your pants. The bad thing about it, is that it doesn't change, even as adult males.
i dont think boys are the most important thing i just dont think they suck. i know what the most important thing is. god. i already know that i have a lot of growing up to do too because im only 13, but that doesn't mean that im totally immature. and i didn't mean to sound like i have an attitude. and its totally not true that you guys say that i do all the time. im a christian and i know the difference between right and wrong. i happen to go to a private christian school called calvary chapel and the person i want to date happens to go there to. he also knows the difference between right and wrong. so sorry guys jesus loves you!!
more advice needed!!!
thanks atyourservice for the help but i definitiely wont deceive my mom its totally wrong!!
on the boy subject ask your mom if you can go on double dates or a group date she may feel better about letting you go if your w. more than 1 person and youll feel way more comfortable if you have ppl you trust around you.
w. make-up i didn't start wearing make-up until my freshman year. maybe see if you can just wear mascara and eyeliner?! maybe even chapstick its not a bright color but ur lips will shine.
if she doesn't go for any of that..try making deals maybe youll if you raise a "b" to an "a" or do more chores around the house.--em
my parents are actually divorced and he said that when im with him i can wear it. and i made sure it was okay with my mom she said fine its his choice. so im not doing anything wrong. i dont get why everyone thinks that teenagers are just the worst..not all of them are and especially the ones that are saved.
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