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    Dec 22, 2007, 10:39 PM
    Never had a boyfriend
    What would you do if you were in the 9th grade and never had a boyfriend and all your friends have one and I have been told that I'm pretty by many people and I'm nice what do you think could be wrong with me and I'm skinny but not too skinny
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    Dec 22, 2007, 10:53 PM
    Hi, 1210!

    I don't think that there is anything wrong with you. Do you ever have dances at school?
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    Dec 22, 2007, 11:20 PM
    Maybe you just do not settle for anything. My oldest son did not have a girlfriend until he was a junior... he has a Senior now with a very nice girl friend no drama, they get along fine and have fun together and get A's & B's
    My other son had a girlfriend in 8th grade off and on until this past fall he is a Sophomore drama, drama. He was to young and so was she. Wait you will be better off in the long run.
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    Dec 22, 2007, 11:53 PM
    Originally Posted by bushg
    Maybe you just do not settle for anything.
    I really like that statement! A lot of junior high and high school students like to feel as though they are a part of the "in crowd" at school and thus have a boyfriend or girlfriend just simply to be "in" even though that boy or girl may not be the best choice for them. Relationships at those ages can be on-again or off-again in a flash! This being due to maybe not making the best choice as far as with whom you want to hang-out.

    It's best to wait until the time and situation seem to be the best for relationships and not to feel pressured so much to have a boyfriend or girlfriend, or even just to do certain things, just because "everyone else has one." "Or, everyone else is doing it."
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    Dec 23, 2007, 02:08 AM
    You should try as much as you can to enjoy your time with your girlfriends and just being carefree and just being in 9th grade. Having a boyfriend isn't always lovey-dovey and stuff, sometimes it can really be a pain. I am not saying you won't feel the need and longing to have one, but what I'm saying is, its not impossible to make it through without one. Enjoy your guyfriends, hanging out at the mall, the guy who has been looking at you a lot down the isle at the supermarket, etc. These are things you can enjoy and no harm can come from them. Besides, boys that age aren't so mature, wait for the right time and the right guy, don't get yourself with anyone just to be with someone.
    Best Wishes, and know that the right guy will come soon - he has to!
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    Dec 25, 2007, 06:34 PM
    There is nothing wrong with you, you just haven't met the right guy for you.
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    Dec 25, 2007, 06:59 PM
    I would say being in 9th grade and not having a boyfriend, is more normal than not normal, this is the age that most dating actually starts and for some girls and boys, they may not date for a few more years at times, depending on many factors.
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    Dec 25, 2007, 07:11 PM
    The only thing wrong with you is yourself esteem. Just because you have never had a boyfriend by ninth grade does not make you weird or undesirable. Stop thinking about what your friends are doing and focus more on yourself and school. There are more important things at your age to worry about other than having a boyfriend. It seems that you are too worried about status and superficial things which girls your age tend to do. Life gets much harder than not having a boyfriend in ninth grade. And why have a boyfriend just because everyone else has.

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