My parents keep, mostly my mother, keep giving out to me about stupid things, and this gets me all wound up, and then then they think im being cheeky and they said there going to ring the school to see if i am, and to put me on report.... But i dont think im cheeky at all...

Any advice?

ScottGem

Teenagers are "cheeky" by definition. So I would say its likely you are being so. But without knowing specifics we can't judge.

The best suggestion I can offer is to try and view things from your parents side. They do love you and want you to succeed. So they do things to try and help you.

Instead of arguing with them about things, try sitting down and saying something like:

I understand you are trying to help me, but things have changed a bit since you were my age. So doing this or that is pretty normal. I'm trying to view things from your side, but I would hope you can do the same.

TJ17

Parents are annoying, especially mums, it's in there job description.

But if they don't beat you, torture you, treat you like a dog or sell you to white slavers, then they must love you.....look at things from there point of view, they feed you, cloth you, buy you things, send you to school so you can get a good education so you can get a good job and make really good money.

On the other hand they could keep all the money they make for themselves and go on that round the world trip and have a ball, while you rot at home......but they don't do they?

Because they love you......sure they're annoying and really p*ss you off sometimes but they only want the best for you.

You just need to see that.....talk about things with them if it's upsetting you.