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    Aug 13, 2010, 10:21 PM
    Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and we're not aloud to talk
    Okay so me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and my dad won't let me talk to him anymore like AT ALL the only way we talk is on myspace... and I REALLY do love him and please don't say I'm "to young" for that NO I'm not I truly love him and we do love each other we thought about breaking up but I don't want anybody else I want & NEED him we really don't know what to do... the reason is he's turning 17 December and I'm barley turning 16 in December, so the problem is my dad won't let us talk anymore AT ALL so what should we do?? If we only talk online? BREAKING UP IS NOOOOT AN OPTION.
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    Aug 13, 2010, 10:23 PM

    Is an oline romance or have you met this guy?
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    Aug 13, 2010, 10:30 PM

    Okay. You're 15 and he's 16. How have you talked in the past? -- via the computer mics like with Skype? By phone?

    By saying your dad won't let you "talk to him," do you mean communicate at all with him or literally TALK with him (voice contact)?

    How long has this long-distance relationship been going on? Has your father allowed it in the past?
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    Aug 13, 2010, 10:41 PM
    Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and we're not aloud to talk
    Okay so me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and my dad won't let me talk to him anymore like AT ALL the only way we talk is on myspace... and I REALLY do love him and please don't say I'm "to young" for that NO I'm not I truly love him and we do love each other we thought about breaking up but I don't want anybody else I want & NEED him we really don't know what to do... the reason is he's turning 17 December and I'm barley turning 16 in December, so the problem is my dad won't let us talk anymore AT ALL so what should we do?? If we only talk online? BREAKING UP IS NOOOOT AN OPTION. & right now I just want to kill myself... so what should I do?
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    Aug 13, 2010, 10:43 PM

    What should you do? Obey your father.

    You are "barely turning 16 in december?" What does that mean? You either ARE or ARE NOT turning 16 in December.
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    Aug 13, 2010, 10:50 PM

    This thread explains why Daddy doesn't want you two together..

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...nd-494273.html

    I don't blame Daddy, he's not ready to be a grandfather and you're too young to be a mother.
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    Aug 14, 2010, 10:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    This thread explains why Daddy doesn't want you two together..

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...nd-494273.html

    I don't blame Daddy, he's not ready to be a grandfather and you're too young to be a mother.
    I think your Daddy needs to lock you in the house till you grow a brain and have a little more respect for yourself. :(
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    #8

    Aug 14, 2010, 10:55 AM

    Your boyfriend sounds like a controlling loser and your father has more sense than you and your boyfriend.
    Leave this guy alone.
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    Aug 14, 2010, 12:43 PM

    Before We Were together like in person, and my dad didn't know about him, then we had to move and we had to talk on the phone and yesterday my dad said we can't anymore he still doesn't know about us going out, we been in the long distance for about 3 months now. And yea a lot of people say they agree with my dad but He's the abusive one which is the only reason I don't tell him about a lot of things. And no I'm not ready to be a mommie and I know he's not ready to be a grandfather we were protective when we had sex [me&my BF]
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    Aug 14, 2010, 12:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bijiou36 View Post
    Before We Were together like in person, and my dad didn't know about him, then we had to move and we had to talk on the phone and yesterday my dad said we can't anymore he still doesn't know about us going out, we been in the long distance for about 3 months now. And yea alot of people say they agree with my dad but He's the abusive one which is the only reason i don't tell him about alot of things. and no im not ready to be a mommie and i know he's not ready to be a grandfather we were protective when we had sex [me&my BF]
    I don't care if wears two condoms... you need to back away. If you think it's abuse on your dads part because he won't let you ruin your life with this loser , that is not abuse. He's being a good parent. You and this guy are going screw up your lives. Don't accuse your Dad of being abusive just because he won't let you fool around with this guy. He loves you, that's what parents do. Knock it off with the lying.
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    #11

    Aug 14, 2010, 12:49 PM

    Then your dad must think you are too young to date in which case you need to go by his rules.
    You and this guy's relationship was funky and inappropriate anyway.
    This could be a good time to move on.
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    Aug 14, 2010, 12:54 PM

    Okay seriously why would I lie about my dad abusing me? I know what abuse is and not letting me see him or talk to him isn't abuse I literally me ABUSE hitting me, and Mental Abuse if you don't believe me then don't try to help because I really wouldn't lie about something that serious
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    Aug 14, 2010, 12:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bijiou36 View Post
    okay seriously why would i lie about my dad abusing me? i know what abuse is and not letting me see him or talk to him isn't abuse i literally me ABUSE hitting me, and Mental Abuse if you don't believe me then don't try to help because i really wouldn't lie about something that serious
    Tell me about the abuse? I'll listen.
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    Aug 14, 2010, 12:57 PM

    First of course there is no real safe sex, even if on birth control and using condoms, women do still get pregnant.
    And of course at 15 the boyfriend is a rapist in most ( if not all) US states and if you had sex with him, your dad could easily send him to prison.

    Next long distance seldom works at your age for long, you need to live you life as a teen you are.
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    #15

    Aug 14, 2010, 01:00 PM

    If your father is abusing you, that is a separate matter.
    You still have no business having the type of relationship you were having with this boy. That relationship was unhealthy and inappropriate. In that, your father is right.
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    Aug 14, 2010, 01:01 PM

    I'm waiting Bijou and so are the others.. we'll listen
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    Aug 14, 2010, 01:04 PM

    How Are We Having An Innapropriate Relationship? & My Names Angel By the way
    & Waitingg For What?
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    Aug 14, 2010, 01:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bijiou36 View Post
    How Are We Having An Innapropriate Relationship?? & My Names Angel By the way
    & Waitingg For What?
    You want to talk about the abuse by your father . That what we're waiting to know about. Know one know your real name or where you live.
    We're waiting to hear about what your dad does that you consider abuse.
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    Aug 14, 2010, 01:12 PM

    Okaay well about the abuse, basically I don't really know what you would like to knoow.. soooo.. hmm he hits me not like how some parents hit their kids he hits like he's fighting somebody but I noticed he never hits me in my face, its always my back & my stomach. Anything else you want to know? & I'm turning 16 in 4 months! Even my mom said I should be aloud to date (I don't live with her they got divorced when I was 2)
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    Aug 14, 2010, 01:15 PM
    All I have to say is. That a lot of these answers are just not right, like the poor girl says she's in love! Dose no one get that, I say that if you guys really do love each other, then you guys can find a way to make it work. Have you ever tried to go to a friends house, and use their phones. And what about a cell-phone. I think that if you guys really do like each other,then myspace really will have to be good enough. :) :o
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