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Well. it's quite a long story. i only want people ages 10-14 answering PLEASE. ok, here goes the long story, make sure you read it all please.
I was in the 4th grade a new boy came in the school, and everyone in the girl's bathroom said he was oh sooo hot [i havent seen him yet.]i was like "no way" and i looked out that bathroom door and my heart jumped and i fell in love from looking at him. i fell on the floor and i said slowly "oh my god." "he is so hottt" So i kept bugging his lttle brother poking him and saying "your brothers hawt" and stuff so finally Lawrence [the hot guy was lawrence]wrote me a sweet note asking me out and i said yes and we were off and on through 5th grade. but b4 i get there i have to tell you sumthing. He was my first kiss. he was just ohh myy godd he was my 1st love,my 1st boyfriend,my 1st hold hands,my 1st make out,my 1st kiss. god. i love him. but as the days went by and the months then years. In November of 5th grade i was devatated to hear he had to transfer schools. i cried all night. after he moved everything was dull in my neighboorhood. my school was dull. everything was blah. now. we are in middle school. [7th grade now] he claims this never happened and he HATES MY GUTS. HE CALLS ME NAMES AND HURTS MY FEELINGS. i am so confused and i already tried talking to him and his friends and the counselors! idk what to do now so if you could PLEASE give me some advice on what to do
Well I'm an old hag and gonna give my 2 cents anyways...you will have plenty of time to fall in love this was lust you are only in the 7th grade. You think dating is giving you problems now just wait for the good times to roll. Like Pat Benatar sings "love is a battlefield.
your first love is usually not your best love. meaning there is better to come. just sucks right now.
so move on. dont spend another minute wasted on him. it was great at the moment. that moment is over. hes denying it cause its easier that dealing with pain.
btw, some people do this when they are 30, not just 10 or 12 or whatever.
Awwwwe! The little girl thinks she is in love
Hunni listen, I thought I had found my first love at 11, despite the fact that he was 18 and worked for my aunt at the time and that he did not see me in any other way then little sister kind of way. Look, maybe you have found your first love but trust me, you're going to be getting over him prettty darn soon. When you get into high school, you're going to see that there are plenty of fish in the sea and you're abrely going to remember old whats-his-faces' name.
Just let it go and try finding someone new.