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I love this guy and he loves me but hes with another girl who he likes
Asked Mar 3, 2009, 02:41 PM
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42 Answers I'm 16 years old and the guy I love is 17. We've been friends for a bit and we "talked" for a while. I am his first love and the only girl he has ever said I love you too. He is the first guy I've truly loved and would do anything for. We talked on and off because I didn't know what I really wanted. But I realized it was him and we dated and we told each other EVERYTHING and ANYTHING and were totally comfortable around each other. But since then, I got grounded for a long time, like a veryyyyyyy long time. And he still wanted to date me though. But he decided it was too hard. I agreed. But even after we broke up, he told me how I was his first love, and only love and could see me in his future. We even talked about kids. He is now dating this girl who he has liked since freshmen year ( we are juniors now) but when I came along, he didn't talk to her anymore, because he was all "me". When we dated, I told him he could go to our spree dance with her because she asked him before. They didn't do anything, but there were still feelings. I love him with all my heart and he has changed me for the better, and I have changed him for good too. I want to be his friend, but it makes it so hard because I love him so much and I want to be with him. Should I just be his friend, and feel that hurt, or let it go and not talk to him anymore? And I don't know what to tell him. |
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| This guy doesn't sound like he's even worth your time. If he really loved you, do you really think he'd be dating another girl? No. Stop kidding yourself. It's over and it sounds like its for the best. My advice is to let it go. | ||||
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| I think you should tell him that you still love him and see what he say's then if he blows you off you should just forget aout him and move on. | ||||
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| I think you are caught up in the drama. | ||||
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| Take it from someone who has been there, you will never be able to be just friends if you truly love the person. You will always long for more and the pain will build up inside you and eventually it turns to resentment! | ||||
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| Yeah rg61fc, I like that. Its so true. I think it took someone to tell me that for me to actually truly believe it | ||||
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| Just curious how old are you? And nope its not possible to be friends when you love that person so let go and move on ahead. You never know maybe one day in the future when all feelings have gone you can be friends. Also if he really loved you he would not have jumped to another girl. Remember everything happens for a reason. | ||||
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| It was "too hard" to have a relationship because you were grounded? Honey, that is not the kind of guy that you want to be with. What happens when you go away for a camp or (in the future) go away to school? Is he going to just dump you because you're not around? I'm with the other on this one, this guy is thinking of convenience rather than your feelings. That is not the kind of guy that you want to be involved with. If being friends is hurting you than no, you can't be friends. You need to think of you. YOU are important, too. You deserve MUCH better than this. | ||||
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| She's 16. If he can't even maintain a relationship while you are grounded, starts dating someone else because he is just SO lonely because you are grounded, I doubt he loves you. It sounds to me, he was filling your ears with what you wanted to hear (perhaps to get what he wanted). Being friends after a relationship is difficult. But it can be done. I was friends with my ex for three years after we dated, we decided it was better to part ways when it became an issue with both our significant others that we were still friends. Move on. And stop getting grounded! | ||||
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| I know.. I do need to stop getting grounded! Lol Yeah it is way to hard to be JUST friends with him. I love him but he's with someone else now, and when they were talking and not dating yet, he told me in the future he wants to be with me, but that sounds lyk bs now. I don't think he told me he loved me to "get what he wanted", he never wanted sex or nething lyk that, he's a virgin. | ||||
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