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    tyera Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 3, 2007, 08:00 PM
    I love this boy that doesn't love me.
    There is a boy I met that I think I fell in love with. He is a really good guy. He likes me back but he recently got a girlfriend that he loves. I don't know should I move on or what... :confused:
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    Jan 3, 2007, 08:12 PM
    well what I think is u need to give him sum tym...

    u love him u know that for sure... all u need to do is let him know that..

    no no I don't mean u have to go n say it to him... just make him

    realize about your feelinz by your behavior towards him...

    if he understands n even then acting as if he didn't then it's a no from him...

    if he too changes his attitude like is he cares for u more than he does now then you are done...

    remember that u shudnt say it directly to him dats what I think...

    b frank n all will b fine dear...

    all d best...
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    Jan 4, 2007, 03:08 AM
    Wait and see. If he breaks up with her, wait a bit more. Then, simply tell him how you feel. Most guy that are "good" <-- not sarcastic. Really. I mean it.
    Can handle that sort of a situation. I'm quiet sure if he says no or is uncertain, he needs more time. If he still doesn't want to, get over him. Someone who doesen't like a sweetie like you must be mad ;)
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    Jan 15, 2007, 03:48 PM
    Actually I know exactly how you feel! Now this guy that I'm in love with knows it and is still my friend, luckily he doesn't have a girlfriend *yet*. Just stay friends with him and go with the flow, if its meant to be it will happebn. GOOD LUCK
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    Jan 17, 2007, 04:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by tyera
    There is a boy i met that i think i fell in love with. He is a really good guy. He likes me back but he recently got a girlfriend that he loves. I don't know should i move on or what....:confused:
    Girl you need to MOVE ON there are way better boys out there don't be stuck in the past in let the world pass you up!
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    Jan 17, 2007, 04:59 PM
    I think you should move on cause he already has a girlfriend and he loves her so move on
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    Jan 17, 2007, 05:04 PM
    From my experiences I would suggest that you move on. Because if you act as if you are depressed and sad from not having anyone, then no one will be attracted to you, and guys that might have liked you will be turned away because of your sad disposition. I would say that you try and get over him, and if down the road you see an opportunity to bring it up to him then by all means act on it. But don't put your life on pause just because he has a girlfriend. Go out there, get happy, meet people, and he will always be around, and maybe you will find someone else. Just remember that if you act sad and depressed you won't attract anyone, but if you can at least put a happy face on for a few weeks till you get over him, you will garner more friends and more romantic opportunities...
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    Feb 7, 2007, 06:41 PM
    I know what to do!! Befriend him, become his best friend, get into the stuff he's into and practice them and become good at them, talk to him, be there for him, become a person he can't live without.

    Then instead of saying "i think i fell in love with" you can either say, I really do love him, or, he's not what I thought he was.

    Also if you do really love him then you will have SUCH a better chance with him, and he might see you and relize what he's missing, you never know with love.

    Good luck to you
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    Apr 7, 2007, 01:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by tyera
    There is a boy i met that i think i fell in love with. He is a really good guy. He likes me back but he recently got a girlfriend that he loves. I don't know should i move on or what....:confused:
    M no love expert but what I think about love is that if you love someone its not that he has to love you bak, you can love someone even if he donlove you en one that if yo love is true you will have his love by yo side too. When you love someone der is nothing like moving on, you love en wait for a fine day when he will appreciate yo love.
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    Jun 25, 2007, 09:01 AM
    Hay girl u move on with own life... see if sometime he focuses on u.if u live near him,try to be bit beautiful and atractive to him, and then see if he likes u or not.
    Warna just forget about him


    Hay there isn't much love left inthis world. Especially guys they r not serios at anyitme
    So u just chill, n try to oget his attention.
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    Jun 25, 2007, 10:04 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tyera
    There is a boy i met that i think i fell in love with. He is a really good guy. He likes me back but he recently got a girlfriend that he loves. I don't know should i move on or what....:confused:
    Your best bet is to move on because to feelings are going to continue to grow for him at times he might call you because he wants to make love to you but that's not pose to go down cause right then and there that's when your feelings are going to begin to grow just **END IT IF YOU Don't WANT TO GET HURT**
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    Jun 29, 2007, 11:07 AM
    Try to talk to him about him, and get to know each other more. While he still has his girlfriend just hang out and stuff so she doesn't get very suspicious. Then when he figures out you're the one he loves. You go for the kill and kiss him!
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    Jun 29, 2007, 02:37 PM
    If I were you I would kind of move on in a way but not completely like try to not obesess (not saying you are obsessing but still) and flirt with other guys (innocently) even though you have feelings for him and just don't let one guy take over your life, but you can still have feelings and wait and see if they break up then maybe tell him how you feel and maybe then you can finally have him
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    Dec 27, 2008, 06:32 AM

    c'mmon girl!! Don't let this one guy rule your life!! Have fun buy shoes have a girls night out you really need to ditch this guy!!
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    Dec 27, 2008, 12:28 PM

    It is impossible to skim through the txt worded replies so I have no idea what all you have already been told.
    Move on. You don't want to be known as the girl that comes between a relationship. If and when you BOTH are free from relationships then see where it goes.
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    Dec 28, 2008, 06:01 PM

    Give him space, as he's already in a relationship.
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    Dec 29, 2008, 11:25 PM

    Like others said wait for a bit see if he breaks up but if they really love each other , time to move on. And how old are you , if you are in between 15 and 18, you don't need a boyfriend.there is guy in my class who wanted a girlfriend in grade 6, and I'm like to him he is way to younge, but did he listen no. They are plenty more boys out there. There's not only just that boy. And while you are waiting try to find a new boyfriend, because if he loves and she loves him, then you might want to be able to say you have a boyfriend , but I think you might still be too young . If your above your 20s, be my guest.Good Luck
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    Dec 30, 2008, 11:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by pengo858 View Post
    like others said wait for a bit see if he breaks up but if they really love each other , time to move on. and how old are you , if you are in between 15 and 18, you don't need a boyfriend.there is guy in my class who wanted a girlfriend in grade 6, and i'm like to him he is way to younge, but did he listen no. They are plenty more boys out there. there's not only just that boy. And while you are waiting try to find a new boyfriend, because if he loves and she loves him, then you might want to be able to say you have a boyfriend , but i think you might still be too young . if your above your 20s, be my guest.Good Luck
    It's not about age, it's about this person accepting reality. He is already with someone else. For you to wait for something that may never happen is just ludicrous.
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    Dec 31, 2008, 06:54 PM

    Also I advise to not try and break them up, not that you would, but in the end it would only screw up your relationship with him
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