Lap Dance?

chevy666 · #1 May 2, 2008, 02:20 PM

Waht is a lap dance exactly? n how do u give one?

MOWERMAN2468 · May 4, 2008, 06:52 AM

that is correct chuck. I don't know what the world is coming to.

thieflord1 · Oct 20, 2008, 09:07 PM

lol funny....teens think about sex......we do it alot... XP

lovebug2140 · Oct 21, 2008, 03:52 PM

hahaha why are lapdances so bad for teens.. teens can be sexual too.. put it this way.. youre a teen all through highschool.. youre old enough to know what youre doing.

jrsg · Oct 21, 2008, 07:01 PM

Just so we are aware, the OP hasn't posted in this thread since May... Thread is dead! However, lovebug, I have to address this...

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

hahaha why are lapdances so bad for teens.. teens can be sexual too.. put it this way.. youre a teen all through highschool.. youre old enough to know what youre doing.

Old enough to know what you are doing?

Are you old enough to raise a child?
Are you old enough to support a family? EVEN YOURSELF?

The argument is NOT whether or not you do it properly, it is whether or not you are ready for a child. Most teens aren't.

Lapdances lead to sex, sex leads to children, a teen with a child leads to a hard life (for mother and child). THAT is why lap dances are so bad for teens.

I am 16, by the way.

lovebug2140 · Oct 21, 2008, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jrsg

Just so we are aware, the OP hasn't posted in this thread since May... Thread is dead! However, lovebug, I have to address this...

Old enough to know what you are doing?

Are you old enough to raise a child?
Are you old enough to support a family? EVEN YOURSELF?

The argument is NOT whether or not you do it properly, it is whether or not you are ready for a child. Most teens aren't.

Lapdances lead to sex, sex leads to children, a teen with a child leads to a hard life (for mother and child). THAT is why lap dances are so bad for teens.

I am 16, by the way.

haha you seriously need to calm down haha. listen to yourself. lapdances dont have to lead to sex if you know what youre doing. teenagers arent retarded. we know the consequences of our actions and we choose how we deal with those. LAP DANCES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HAVING CHILDREN. and im 17 by the way.. haha so maybe it takes a year to grow up?

SimpleguyJoe · Oct 22, 2008, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

haha you seriously need to calm down haha. listen to yourself. lapdances dont have to lead to sex if you know what youre doing. teenagers arent retarded. we know the consequences of our actions and we choose how we deal with those. LAP DANCES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HAVING CHILDREN. and im 17 by the way.. haha so maybe it takes a year to grow up?

Haha Unless it's at the strip club any lapdance will eventually open up new options and break old barriers and will in turn lead on to the thought process of "well sense we can so casually screw around with each other why cant we "casually" have sex." or maybe start with something of the type. But neither of you are 100% wrong be more open minded, for alot of people it does lead to sex for a few it does not.

jrsg · Oct 22, 2008, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

haha you seriously need to calm down haha. listen to yourself. lapdances dont have to lead to sex if you know what youre doing. teenagers arent retarded. we know the consequences of our actions and we choose how we deal with those. LAP DANCES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HAVING CHILDREN. and im 17 by the way.. haha so maybe it takes a year to grow up?

Before I start... thank you to Joe, I see that lap dances do not necassarily lead to sex, but most do, like you said. Accoring to Dictionary.com (a reputable source), a lap dance is "an erotic dance" and erotic is "arousing or satisfying sexual desire."

First of all, I pointed out my age to prove that I am not biased, NOT to say that I am older, thus more wise...

Secondly, I never said that teenagers are reatarded... Remember, I am a teen myself.

Thrid, I am calm, I just feel strongly about certain things. I also do "listen to what I am saying" and it makes perfect sense in my head.

So, as you said, "LAP DANCES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HAVING CHILDREN."
Do you agree that a lap dance is a sexual dance?
Do you agree that a sexual dance would lead to sex?
Do you agree that sex leads to children?

How can you make such a statement? Please, explain it to me. I am open to changing my opinion anytime, but only if I am provided with decent evidence that I am wrong.

Also,

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

hahaha why are lapdances so bad for teens.. teens can be sexual too.. put it this way.. youre a teen all through highschool.. youre old enough to know what youre doing.

What I noticed was "teens can be sexual too."
Sure, they can be. But are they willing to face the consequences? You can't possibly tell me at 17 that you are ready for a child. And I realize there are ways of being sexual that don't involve actual sex, but it does lead to it. And again, sex leads to children.

Haven't you ever done anything in the "heat of the moment," then regreted it? Something sexual (like a lap dance) can put you in that moment of heat, and then you could have sex, WITHOUT considering the risks.

Back to the other quote,

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

haha you seriously need to calm down haha. listen to yourself. lapdances dont have to lead to sex if you know what youre doing. teenagers arent retarded. we know the consequences of our actions and we choose how we deal with those. LAP DANCES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HAVING CHILDREN. and im 17 by the way.. haha so maybe it takes a year to grow up?

I also noticed, "we know the consequences of our actions and we choose how we deal with those." Again, you know how to deal with children? I really doubt that.

And,
"haha so maybe it takes a year to grow up?"
That just isn't needed.

jrsg · Oct 22, 2008, 07:53 PM

Okay... Lovebug...

Seriously, do you have something against me?

You have reddied me already once today, and you disagree with everything I say.

EVEN when I say sex may not be a good idea for teens, you disagree. I just went through your profile, and the threads you've started. One of them titled, "I don't know if im pregnant." YOU OF ALL PEOPLE SHOULD KNOW THE RISKS! AFTER A PREGNANCY SCARE!

Some quotes from your other thread:

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

Oh, and I'm 17 by the way.

-Don't sound too happy, or ready to raise a child. Even you blame it on the age.

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

i know this is totally crazy, but what about abortions if it did come down to that..

i hate even the thought. ahh.

I thought teens were aware of how to DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES, and you can CHOOSE how to do so. Doesn't sound like you're ready to make such a decision.

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Originally Posted by lovebug2140

im definitely going to be more careful in the future

It doesn't sound like you learned much through your expirience. After all that, you still think sex between teens is okay. Really?

You, and most teens, ARE NOT ready to raise a child on their own. SO, something like a lap dance, which could lead to sex, which could lead to CHILDREN is BAD. Okay? Don't I make sense?

And please, sit down, and think, and learn from your mistakes. I really feel sorry for you because of the situation you're in. I am sorry to bring it up, but I just need to know if, for any reaon, you just don't like me. It just shows your desire to disagree with me so clearly.

SO,
Do you understand my points here?
and, do you dislike me?



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