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Sphira · Apr 9, 2009, 06:50 PM

Hey all :):)

OK here is my current problem I am in this kind of sick love triangle. First off it starts with this girl and we are the best of friends we help each other with our homework etc. but this guy we have both known for about a year and a half has come into the picture and hey we are all really good friends any way a while ago she started to openly crush on him he even knows it she waits for him follows him knows where he is kind of scary huh. But on the weekends me and him have been sneaking out to this park to just have fun like go on bush walks etc. we don't kiss or any thing( Not that I have thought about it). So no one knows about these secret meets not even my parents ( who think I am reading at the park). That was a while back now a days though there is rumor going around that me and him are dating and we are not and the girl and I are still good friends but me and the guy are distanced he is always busy when I invite him out on the weekends and never want to talk to me I am so confused now I don't know what to do?? :confused::confused::confused:

If any one can help me out I thank you so much
(we are 14 just started year nine and the holidays just started:))

talaniman · Apr 9, 2009, 08:07 PM

Seems you may want more than friendship but he doesn't. Its also possible he knows how you both feel about him, but doesn't want to be caught between you. Just be friends, and leave it at that.

HelpinHere · Apr 10, 2009, 12:34 AM

First off, that is not exactly a love triangle, :P

Second: He seems to not want to get caught between two friends. Props to him for being mature about that, and props to you for trying to get good advice about it.
Apparently, he wasn't to come between you and your friend. If you both want him, at fourteen, I'm sure trouble will come between you two because of him, no matter how good friends you are.
For the sake of your friendship, you should neither go out with him. You should stay friends, and to dispel those rumors, find out where they are coming from and put a stop to them.

lilmisshustlerx · Apr 10, 2009, 12:38 AM

Guys come and go. Stay close to your friend. You never know he might come around. Try talking to him. Ask him what's wrong be strait forward towards him.

JOX · Apr 22, 2009, 06:39 AM

Hey!
I whole-heartedly agree with lilmisshustlerx.
Getting guys isn't a matter of concern but what actually is difficult is to get a good friend. Stay with your friend and stop those secret meetings in the park slowly(if you find it difficult) because if someday your friend gets to know it, she'l feel very bad about it. Also try not to cheat your parents.. they are your harbingers...
Well... Good Luck!

keith93 · Apr 23, 2009, 09:55 AM

Sucks but you will live