in your opinion, do popular guys often like the really popular outgoing girls that like every guy in the grade has already dated, or do they often like the ones that are a little more out of the way, but sometimes just like them secretly because they are afraid if they talk to a less popular girl, it'll ruin their reputation or something or are just scared to? and do you think a lot of them like mysterious girls that they kinda have to chase or the ones that they can get easily?

XM8

lol I wish I had been haha

Well, I'm not a psychologist but I have a theory. I think these "popular" people have inferiority complexes. They make fun of other people and put them down to feel good. They insulate themselves with other "popular" people to feel like they're something special, as if they're elite or something of the likes.

When you look it, thinking outside of the box, it really looks pathetic. At the end of the day, those "popular" kids have nothing except their misery and they eat themselves alive.

Just think of them as victims i.e. their parents not giving them enough attention, or having been bullied in the past. However, whether they be victims or not, they are still spiteful and hurtful, so ignore them - that's what I would do in your place.

A real guy with a heart will give his heart to a girl that is special, not to a girl that is so common to find (like a good looking girl).

Guys who only go out with good looking girls are mostly air-heads. Don't get me wrong of course there are decent women who are good looking, but not all good looking women are decent.

Unfortunately the majority of both guys and girls tend to chose looks over sentiments - and that's what makes the ones who don't special.

Think wisely and take care,

-Xm8

salamander5

actually, its mostly about drugs, sex and alcohol, but i guess that stuff too.