I'm a girl and I like my bestfriend.whos a girl

serenitynow422 · #1 Aug 19, 2007, 10:45 PM

Hi...i know theres lots of issues surrounding bisexual people and everything but i like girls and guys. I can't help it it's who i am. I have a boyfriend and everything between me and him are awesome, he gave me a promise ring and everything. But i'm attracted to my bf...tia. She's awesome smart and dumb, funny, caring, and she has a rocking body. Though i don't know if i should say anything to her. My boyfriend encourages me to be who i am and i want to tell her because she's given me hints but i can't tell if its just me or really her. I don't want to hurt a friendship...but i can't help what i feel...help...all i can do right now is stay positive

cal823 · Aug 19, 2007, 10:50 PM

if you liked a guy other than your bf, what would you do?

serenitynow422 · Aug 19, 2007, 10:56 PM

but my bf said go for it if i like her

Clough · Aug 19, 2007, 11:13 PM

I am curious as to how old you and the other two people are. It might shed some light for people providing answers for you. Thank you.

cal823 · Aug 20, 2007, 01:31 AM

you can only really have one partner in my opinion, listen to your heart.
its good to know your bf is understanding, understand though, it could break his heart, or even your heart.
just do what your heart tells you.

Clough · Aug 20, 2007, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Clough

I am curious as to how old you and the other two people are. It might shed some light for people providing answers for you. Thank you.

My question still stands, as I think that it is a valid one. Thank you.

xxmissconfusedxx · Aug 20, 2007, 06:10 AM

Sit down with tia and explain to her how you and and ask her is she has been dropping hints .
And i'm curious to why your boyfriend is so into you doing this

Dennis777 · Aug 20, 2007, 06:43 AM

Hello.

Your Boyfriend might say "go for it" knowing if he gets you to play with your friend he will also get some fun time with your Girlfriend. But in most cases if you add a third person it will hurt the relationship. Its better to let fantisy be fantisy.

Dennis777

LearningAsIGo · Aug 20, 2007, 07:02 AM

Sometimes friends have a "admiration" for each other which is different than infatuation.

Explore your feelings and the difference between the two before you say anything to her and possibly upset the friendship.

cal823 · Aug 21, 2007, 05:51 AM

dennis has a good point, but she might dislike him or have no interest in him whilel iking you, and they could end up disputing over you or competing for your time/attention, which could be a very bad thing.
she also mite not even like you like that.
learning and dennis advice is good.



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